I met this person online. We clicked in all ways possible. We're long distance, western US from eastern US. We're going to meet shortly and plan out what we want to do. Talk constantly on phone and online.
Problem is, I've been hurt in local relationships, and I am afraid of being hurt again. I want to give this my all, and I have developed a significant amount of feelings for him. His family and friends know about me, and I've been on the phone when he's talked to them... and I've talked with several of his friends.
QUESTION: He's quite open with this, and practically every one knows about "us". BUT... am I just being paranoid? Because two particular girls leave him notes on his profiles using pet names and saying "hey lover" and such things. At one point he deleted one of them, he told me because he felt uncomfortable... but he readded her. I know talking about it is an option... but I don't want to feel over-bearing.
So, paranoia? Or reasonable suspicion?
2006-08-26 08:50:13 · 4 answers · asked by Dawn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi
i totally understand your situation. i am currently loved up with a guy i met online about 3 months ago. and its difficult.
thing is, do you like trust your guy? i mean, i know about some of the people who he talks to and quite a lot of them know about me.
if you ask him about it in a way that says hey, i trust you but i wanna know whats up. the only way you get get over this is either by letting it go coz u trust him, or you can just ask him. either way, thers no doubt that you will have to eventually talk to him about it.
good luck.
2006-08-26 09:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be a little cautious. He might be a player, but if he is nice guy then it you try it out.
Meeting online you don't have to much pressure because the person is not in front of you. You don't know how you would act if you meet him in person. Just be open and expect the best, the most that can happen is that you hit it off.
But if you have trust issues then a long distance relationship might not be for you. Because you don't know what he is doing back home. You don't know if he is married, in relationship or just want a one night stand.
So do rush into anything immediately, trust your gut feeling. If you feel something is wrong then do not do it before you regret it later.
2006-08-26 09:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by de_dark_angel71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly have a pal had a effective relationship. It took approximately 8 months. he's now living together with her up the coast. They met on line at the same time as taking part in a game. definite it may artwork. people who say it does not had a bad journey yet relationship in individual is likewise finished of undesirable studies and it works. i think of verbal replace is the main serious subject. That and believe. If the different individual maintains to go searching and date being separated will enlarge the concern.
2016-11-05 21:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say online dating is bad. i mean im young but seriously i mean you're talking to this guy you dont even know and how are you positive hes not out to get porn or something and sell it everywhere? i say dump him and find someone else but you can take the chance and only hope hes the one for you and you dont get hurt...
2006-08-26 08:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋