Singles & Dating - 17 August 2006

Can you guys over 23 explain what scares you off if you are dating someone for about 2 weeks? What sort of things would make you change your mind and how would you react? Would you stop calling all-together? Or would you just play some sort of games? (And this is assuming you are generally pretty polite and raised with good morals...) Would you talk to the girll about what's bothering you? Please help!

2006-08-17 14:46:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive liked this guy now for about two years and i just found out that he likes me too. well about a week ago he kissed me and everything, but that night i asked him what was this that we were doing and he said he didnt want to have a relationship. so its pretty much friends with benefits...and im not for that, but i like this guy a lot. and i told him how i felt about friends with benefits and he said he would never take advantage of me and that he respects my desition. i dont know what i should do..i wanna continue but part of me is telling me to stop!

2006-08-17 14:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex dumped me, basically by writeing "it's over" with forks on my lawn. My friend asked him the next day if me & him were still going out and he said no. I asked him if he could tell me that it was over on the phone to make sure it was official and he did so at least he told me that but now he is totally ignoring me. I still hecka like him though; should I?

2006-08-17 14:45:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 14:44:13 · 4 answers · asked by Lace 1

I was talking to this guy for about 2 months and i really started to like him but when i really got to know him he wasnt my type at all meaning he has not job no car and hes 20 years and really ghetto acting but im just still attracted to him i dont know why... i called it off with him about 2 weeks ago and i can not stop thinkin about him til this day i guess im just attracted to the bad boys cause thats what he is..he does drugs, drinks alot..... when we were together he would call me through out the week and disappear on weekends?? then call me on monday?. i know he really likes me because when i try to leave he'll hold me back or cry and i fall for that sh** cause its sad hes like all manly and ghetto and only cries for me??..........now after 2 weeks he sent me a message on myspace saying he misses me so i called him my mistake and come to find out he has a cell phone and hes getting money from where im thinkin his new boyfriend? but what does he want from me?? does anyone get me?

2006-08-17 14:43:03 · 2 answers · asked by Gabriel 1

When I was just friends with this girl, I confessed my love for her but didn't ask her to be my girlfriend because I thought of taking it slow. After a few months, she told me she's giving another guy a chance. I stopped talking to her since then and 3 months later, she begged me to communicate with her again because that guy did not love her. We are together now but in the back of my mind I just want to date another girl for 3 months to even the score.

2006-08-17 14:42:56 · 43 answers · asked by Cool Guy 2

alot of chick flicks =[) most of them are funny and interisting

P.S. i'm not looking for dates. i just gotta say it

2006-08-17 14:42:45 · 11 answers · asked by blah 2

i need to change..

the guy im in love with..he said i can earn his love..so i need to be more self confindent..and stop cutting myself..and be less shy..i will change fro him..ive liked him for like 2 years...

How can i be self confident? i need to think im pretty and stuff...but i dont think i am..

I have been cutting for like 1 year now...the past month ive been trying to stop..like i only cut once or twise a week..but i cut deeper like i wont stop bleeding for 2 hours..and i cant stop cutting..i need help...how do i stop?

I need to be less shy..and more like out there..and i need tips on kissing...HELP?!?!

you can im me if you want.=]

2006-08-17 14:41:33 · 12 answers · asked by scared by myselfXxXx 2

me and this guy have been seeing each other for a month in a half he works a busy schedule 15-20 hours a day (Drill Instructor) so we see other every once in a while and work on the same marine base so we are doing okay he is always telling me how he likes me and is happy being near me on his day off and how he will always make time for me when he's not busy so last night i wrote him a text message to his cell phone and I told him how i liked him and how nice and respectful he is to me but he hasn't called or wrote back i understand he is busy but i'm also feeling like i am being too pushy......was I wrong for saying how I feel ? i don't want to run him away

2006-08-17 14:40:58 · 25 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3

my boyfriend was a virgin. and well we had sex for the first time a couple weeks ago and he looked at me like he didnt like it. but he did. i just dont know why he made that face it made me feel bad

2006-08-17 14:39:58 · 42 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1

Two days ago, I found out that my girlfriend is having an affair with another woman. Today I caught her getting oral from the neighbor's doberman, and a friend of mine told me that he saw her the other day riding a horse....upside down. Tonight she told me that she no longer wants to have underwater sex with me.
Should I be concerned? Is the romance over?
Does anyone here actually believe the load of crap I just wrote?

2006-08-17 14:39:38 · 10 answers · asked by opjames 4

My boyfriend is staying w/me and lately talks about moving somewhere else. When I say; "what about us?", he's like I'll get settled then you can come." He's on his way in the car to this place and in a phone conversation - he say,"I can't be w/someone that's up&down, I love your spirit for life and I love you but I never know what you'll b like" Blah, blah. Then I get a text msg saying he'd like me to come 4 the wknd. I sent an email saying that since he doesn't seem to want to b w/me - I am going to start thinking about myself, & he writes back, "I guess I'm on my own, you don't seem to want to be w/me- I wish you would reconsider! After the long talk on the phone at how he can't be w/someone like me etc, then he is asking me up for the weekend!! What gives? And NO he is not a young guy!!
I want to write back and say HEEEllllooo?R U Nuts or what? I want some advise before I answer...

2006-08-17 14:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by gandergirl81 1

its scary sometimes but i love it

it makes me melt :)

2006-08-17 14:36:42 · 29 answers · asked by blah 2

if your a guy that like to put on thong panties. would u condider him a fag? i think that would make u a fag. my friend said it only means your a freak

2006-08-17 14:36:32 · 6 answers · asked by Priesd D 2

2006-08-17 14:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just told a girl that i like her, and she responded by saying that she doesn't feel like she should be in a relationship right now. do you all think that that's what she really means? or is she just trying to tell me that she's really not interested?

2006-08-17 14:34:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My understanding is that a girl wants alot of attention (yes?). Giving the girl attention will help make her become attracted to you. Let's say you start dating, at this point would it be better to continue giving her attention, or to start taking it away and start making her work alittle for it? If so, then how much is too much?

Also I understand that girls like an adventurous guy. What would "adventurous" qualify as? Like actually going out on trips/etc., or like just a personality that is adventurous and open-minded

2006-08-17 14:34:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this girl at camp. She was 13 & I was 13. she liked me i liked her. but mylacky tried to ask her out. i was pissed. she asked me if i would be ok if she went out with him. i said no. later she gave me notes and her e-mail address. i tried to mail her. but it was wrong. she lives a little bit close. what do you think is going on?

2006-08-17 14:32:57 · 37 answers · asked by GJA 2

what im saying is that whereever you are im not looking but i am sending out special feelings for you can you triangle- ate and find me irresistable? you all know who im talking too, the real yellow person.

2006-08-17 14:30:56 · 5 answers · asked by stoppedinmytracksandlovingityepp 1

are you girls like me? when ever i look into a girls eyes i basicly melt inside and i feel like i really know them alot more if i star into there eyes for a few mins. not just connect them pass but stair.

do you girls feel like this to?

2006-08-17 14:27:43 · 22 answers · asked by blah 2

2006-08-17 14:27:38 · 21 answers · asked by JimmyJaan 2

i have a boyfriend but,i want to know if he loves me.we are going to be togethter for 1 year in november.we stare at each other we are crazy about eachother we talk every day, we are the same age and well,you get the picture,AM I IN LOVE?

2006-08-17 14:27:30 · 21 answers · asked by princesskitty06 1

Why are some girls so "stuck up"...I use to text this one girl just to say hi, everytime I did I wouldn't get a reply she would just go to "away" or "sign off"...she deleted me off 'MySpace' and I didn't know it was her until she IMed me today and I started thinking about it...(she told me a BS lie that she got hacked)...anyways she IM not too long ago she didn't say hi or nothing...just start talking about her BF (which I didn't she had until now)....she says they got to together last sunday...so she text me "saying her BF is jealous...and if I friend said she loves her he gets mad"...so I just said "tell him I love you...you know where I live" she says "you wanna die"...I say "No, If I win what I get...and if he wins?"..."she says "If I win I get a kick in the ***...if he wins he gets her"...My point is why are girls so stuck up...it gets straight up annoying....and why freaking Text me if you deleted me off MySpace talking about your BF...do you just like attention from other guys?

2006-08-17 14:27:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

should be together. Please let me know what you think.

Pros:
He says he loves me and is proud to be with me.
Talks to me a lot more than what my ex's ever did.
Said he supports me 100% when bullies are bothering us.
Said he's looking forward to going w/ me to the dances, football games, out to eat, and other events.

Cons
He wanted me to skip class last year, but he wouldn't skip for me because, "The teacher would be so mad."
Broke up with me for 2 hours last year because I asked a friend that's a guy what he thought about my highlights and make up, which he liked. (My boyfriend said he didn't like my make up which hurt, and didn't say he liked my hair, so I asked a friend because I wanted to see if I looked okay.)
Doesn't want me talking to that guy, "No matter how nice he is to you, you will have to do me a favor not to talk to him and keep it.
We haven't been on 1 date yet and it's been 4 months.
Told a girl she has nice boobs.
Has me blocked for AIM for no reason.

2006-08-17 14:26:51 · 8 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3

i dont think so but my boyfriend seems to. he just got home from being on the road.

2006-08-17 14:25:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 14:25:20 · 8 answers · asked by V. A. K 2

is this true

2006-08-17 14:23:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 14:22:46 · 15 answers · asked by crazy girl 1

2006-08-17 14:21:51 · 27 answers · asked by hykerchik 1

im goin in to my junior year of highschool next week and need some advice before school starts. it seems like every year i meet a girl and for 1st half of the school year we both like eachother alot, talk online all the time, then on the phone, then hang out. after a while the girl changes, the conversations arent as interesting, not because were tired of eachother, but she doesnt put any effort in to it. we dont hang out as much and wen we do shes not as talkative and we dont laugh or have as much fun. we stay friends til summerbut then we drift apart and the cycle starts over with a new girl, i hate it. this has happened every year since 6th grade and now im going in to 11th grade. why do girls keep doing this? are they losing interest or what? i know ill get a class with a girl this year and well start talking and the same thing will happen as before so any advice to prevent this and keep the relationship going to the next level before she loses interest would be amazing

2006-08-17 14:21:25 · 6 answers · asked by Sam16 2