should be together. Please let me know what you think.
Pros:
He says he loves me and is proud to be with me.
Talks to me a lot more than what my ex's ever did.
Said he supports me 100% when bullies are bothering us.
Said he's looking forward to going w/ me to the dances, football games, out to eat, and other events.
Cons
He wanted me to skip class last year, but he wouldn't skip for me because, "The teacher would be so mad."
Broke up with me for 2 hours last year because I asked a friend that's a guy what he thought about my highlights and make up, which he liked. (My boyfriend said he didn't like my make up which hurt, and didn't say he liked my hair, so I asked a friend because I wanted to see if I looked okay.)
Doesn't want me talking to that guy, "No matter how nice he is to you, you will have to do me a favor not to talk to him and keep it.
We haven't been on 1 date yet and it's been 4 months.
Told a girl she has nice boobs.
Has me blocked for AIM for no reason.
2006-08-17 14:26:51 · 8 answers · asked by +♪♫ rip my jeans.not my ♥ ♫♪+ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
someone's actions will show you that they care about you, and it doesnt really sound like his show that. all your pros are things that he says to you, but from your cons it doesnt sound like he follows through on the things he says. he seems a little bit controlling...you should be able to have guy friends without him minding, and he shouldnt break up with you b/c you asked a friend about your hair. he might be insecure and so he feels that he needs to control you or something. maybe you should take a break and see other people, or just take some time to be alone.
2006-08-17 14:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥love2havefun♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds too complicated to be worth it and since you seem to be having chronic doubts about whether he appreciates you or not. It doesn't seem like his words and actions match up....like the abusive asshole that I was with for only two weeks because one week was all I could stand. Also, a guy that encourages you to skip class, but wants to save his own *** needs to be dropped on his ***. If he is preventing you from talking to certain friends right now, think about the future, he most likely will control other aspects of your life. It seems as if he is trying to control how you dress and style yourself and preventing you from being around 'nice' guys now because of his insecurities. He is trying to break you down bit by bit so that you believe that he is the only person you deserve and you deserve so much better! That is a sick and twisted relationship.
2006-08-17 14:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh. The business about not letting you talk to guys is a major league deal breaker which signifies a probable abuser. You haven't been on a date and he's your boyfriend? Surely you jest.
People you date should make you feel comfortable, respect you and your wishes, honor you and your desires and wishes you to do the same for him. Looks like a pretty one-sided relationship from here. He says quite a bit but actions speak MUCH louder than words.
2006-08-17 14:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that you have to really use common sence. Our hearts can tell us one thing and our minds another. I assume your a teenager. From experience take it slow. There are more inmportant things than worring about a boy. Relationships can make you get off track. I was so blinded by love as a teenager that I didn;t hink about the future if things didn't turn out the way I thought. Things have definitely not been what I thought they would and now I would do things different now that I know. Don't take the hard road. Learn from others.
2006-08-17 14:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by favoritecolorsblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like alot of trouble to me.......it is the old double-standard way of thinking. Ask yourself if you are really enjoying all of the con's with him and if the pro's outweigh the con's. If they don't, why waste your time and why haven't you gone on a date yet? What are your ages?
2006-08-17 14:34:58 · answer #5 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a catch to me....
What exactly is he doing for you other than saying he will be your boyfirned and not acting like it.
I vote for moving on and finding a real boyfriend. He gets a D+ for a grade.
2006-08-17 14:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK GURL LET ME TELL U,HE IS A SKEEZER HE IS TOO JELOUS AT TIMES HE THINK'S DAT HE CAN RUN OVER U BUT U CAN'T RUN OVER HIM ......U NEED TO SHOW HIM WHO'S BOSS..IF THAT DNT WORK DEN YAL GONNA NEED A BREAK OR SOMTHIN,U DNT DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE THAT OR ANY GIRL WHOS DEALIN THRU DIS SITUATION.......
2006-08-17 14:35:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Mz.Top Notch♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty bad...
2006-08-17 14:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bernie Lomax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋