ive liked this guy now for about two years and i just found out that he likes me too. well about a week ago he kissed me and everything, but that night i asked him what was this that we were doing and he said he didnt want to have a relationship. so its pretty much friends with benefits...and im not for that, but i like this guy a lot. and i told him how i felt about friends with benefits and he said he would never take advantage of me and that he respects my desition. i dont know what i should do..i wanna continue but part of me is telling me to stop!
2006-08-17 14:46:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says he dosnt want a relationship becuz it gets too hard with school and its less drama
2006-08-17 14:55:46 · update #1
Stick with your first instinct, otherwise you will have regrets later.....
2006-08-17 14:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont know what to say. I have this same problem. A guy told me that we were like friends with benefits and I like him but I dont know if he wants a relationship with me. If I were you, I wouldnt give him anymore if you all are having sex and see if he stills stick around. I dont think it's fair to have a fake relationship with a guy. Its fun and exciting and can make you feel love but you are not really being loved.
2006-08-17 14:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could continue this "friends with benefits" thing with this guy, but be aware you could end up hurt. If you're strong enough to handle getting hurt, go with it. If not, tell him you can't do this anymore. Find another guy that wants a meaningful relationship with you. I've been there...you don't want your heart broken!!
2006-08-17 14:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cannot have his cake and eat it too tell him your either a couple or you are just friends he is taking advantage of you by leading you on tell him to make up his mind and stick to yourself and be strong you want to be with a guy that loves you too dont you not someone that will lead you on !
2006-08-17 14:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. If he's kissing you but telling you he doesn't want a relationship, then he's not considering you gf material. If you aren't looking for the benefits package, leave this one alone. If he likes you enough, he'll change his mind.
2006-08-17 14:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If you don't want to be his sex buddy, don't. You made it clear that you want more and he's not willing to give that to you, so why should you give yourself to him anyway? He told you he doesn't want a relationship. So if you do have sex with him, it's at your risk. Remember, you can't make someone want you.
2006-08-17 14:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
purely enable her comprehend, that your there for her. and you're prepared to hearken to something she has to declare. enable her comprehend, that even nevertheless you have those thoughts you will properly be the best female buddy that she had on no account had.
2016-10-02 05:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with it! if it doesn't work out then move on and stay friends
2006-08-17 14:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by laurennn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋