im goin in to my junior year of highschool next week and need some advice before school starts. it seems like every year i meet a girl and for 1st half of the school year we both like eachother alot, talk online all the time, then on the phone, then hang out. after a while the girl changes, the conversations arent as interesting, not because were tired of eachother, but she doesnt put any effort in to it. we dont hang out as much and wen we do shes not as talkative and we dont laugh or have as much fun. we stay friends til summerbut then we drift apart and the cycle starts over with a new girl, i hate it. this has happened every year since 6th grade and now im going in to 11th grade. why do girls keep doing this? are they losing interest or what? i know ill get a class with a girl this year and well start talking and the same thing will happen as before so any advice to prevent this and keep the relationship going to the next level before she loses interest would be amazing
2006-08-17 14:21:25 · 6 answers · asked by Sam16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to take this to the next level yourself. Make it clear you don't want to be just friends. Best relationships start off as friendships first. Your still young and have a lot to learn. I'm not sure what you mean but if you want you can contact me.
2006-08-17 14:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ziggy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to happen? Are you interested in a romantic relationship? You may be holding back too much and not sending clear signals. I'm not saying jump all over her ... but girls can't read your mind! At some point, if you want the relationship to progress, you have to be willing to take a little risk.
I'm not sure if this is the kind of thing you're talking about, but if it is, I hope this answer makes some sense to you. Good luck!
2006-08-17 14:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by amivins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because she learns you are a nice guy. Be a jerk to her and in five minutes you'll get her number. All the girls on here are going to say "no they won't" But yes they will. The guy that I know that scores the most is a huge jerk and alchoholic. Nice guys = friends. Jerks = boyfriends. It's either you don't get a date, or you go out for two weeks. It dosesn't last long when you're a jerk, but it's better than nothing.
Note:I'm a really nice guy, I haven't had a girlfriend yet, guess what happened? I got bitter. I saw what guys had that had less personality, less things to offer, and how they got everything I wanted. That's what happened.
2006-08-17 14:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your expecting too much...Just go with the flow and let things happen...And don't try so hard either....Just enjoy the 11th grade....Don't spend soo much time on trying to talk to one girl that may or may not be interested....
2006-08-17 14:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u actually date her then u wont drift appart and if u guys arent having fun go on a dubble dat with ure friend at a resturaunt.
2006-08-17 14:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by CaRoLiNe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just that every girl that you have encountered is not really meant for you dear!Well, if your into it again , just give your best shot!Treat her as a princess,show her how much she reallt meant to you and how valuable and pricous she is.Make her feel comfortable with your company.Make your dreams and share it with her especially those are for the future of the two of you.
2006-08-17 14:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by richel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋