I realize it's up to the guy whether or not he wants to finally commit. I'm in a "casual sex" type relationship..been so over a year. Anyways, awhile I brought up the fact that I didn't like it that we weren't commited & he said he wasn't ready. After that I said I needed space & didn't talk to him for a month. I started to miss him so I ended up calling him a month later. We're back to what we used to be..but he told me "it is what it is"..still..I understood that, so now I'm pretty much using him just like he uses me. But I've back off the emotional side of me, and I think he can tell. Except that if I call him like on a Friday to do something, he won't call me back until Sunday..when he know it's best for him to get together..& I always give in..& hang out. Lately I haven't been answering or I call him back much later..monkey see monkey do. If I play his game back, will he finally take me serious that I won't stand for his behavior..or will it turn him off? What should I do?
2006-08-13
08:07:13
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