How can I tell my mom that I have a boyfiend. She is having problems with hers and she tells me I shouldnt have a bf rightr now. I really Love him and he loves me but its hard to tell my mom when she tells me I shouldnt have one.
2006-08-13 08:00:20 · 23 answers · asked by sascheer1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her. It will be better to tell her now, than to wait and she's mad at you later for not telling her sooner. Doesn't make sense but that is just the way it works.
2006-08-13 08:05:37 · answer #1 · answered by emarlow15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but ou have a right to control your life and the people in it, to a point. Since no age is given i am going to assume your either 16 or younger, and mom has control, you must show your mom that you are mature enough to handle a serious relationship and be willing to discuss certain aspects with her about your relationship and she will in turn give you a wealth of experience and wiseness which is priceless
2006-08-13 08:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, introduce your boyfriend to your mom and don't tell her that he's your boyfriend yet. Let him and your mom get acquainted with each other. When she thinks tht he's a great guy, he should tell her that he likes you and ask her if he can go out with you. See what she says. This might be awkward, but it's an option. Keep in mind that someday, you and your boyfriend will be over, and that's probably what your mom is worried about.
2006-08-13 08:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because of the fact that your mom is having relationship troubles doesn't mean that she should take the spark out of your life. If she doesn't like it, tough. Tell her to deal with it. She'll eventually get back into the game and it won't matter at that point.
The only reason she doesn't want you to is seems to be due to pure jealousy.
Good luck
2006-08-13 08:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by big_t8r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u 3?
2006-08-13 08:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your case with your mom is a classic one were you can learn from both sides. It is best to find out from your mom, what it is about having a boyfriend she don't want you to have right now.
Some times parents don't want to see their children hurt in relationships as this pain from a broken heart is not any thing easy to deal with. Try and find out from your mom what it is and see if your current boy friend don't have those same traits.
Be smart and don't let love blind you from finding out all you can about relationships as you may be saving your self a lot of heartache and pain.
2006-08-13 08:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to be honest with her and let her know about the positives of the guy. Regardless of what she says it would at least keep the trust between you guys good. Rather than her finding out later and lose her trust in you.
2006-08-13 08:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by OJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just tell her :]
It would probably be awkward if you had to set up a talk with her..it would probably be better spontaniously. Like in the car or something, just mention, "oh there's this guy I really like." Or something along those lines.
Good luck.
2006-08-13 08:07:56 · answer #8 · answered by Señora Rosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst
2016-03-27 00:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your Mom you have meet someone that makes you happy and you are sorry if it upsets her. But just becasue she isn't happy doesn't mean you can't be happy. You have a life to live. You can't live your mothers life.
2006-08-13 08:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋