Sex without Foreplay??? SEXUALLY SELFISH MEN!@#$%?

Question

Ladies, How many of you out there have a mate who is only interested in pleasing themselves. No foreplay of any kind just a WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM 2 MINUTES and its over and you are lying there thinking, WELL WHAT ABOUT ME?" How does that make you feel about the relationship you share? What will you do about it? Why are guys like that? Is it Love? Should you just move on? How does it affect you? Ladies make it interesting cause I know that YOU ARE OUT THERE WITH SAME ISSUE

Answer 1

I'm Muslim, and the Holy Quran, our religious book, actually tells men that they should never have sex with their wives without "foreplay" beforehand..It may seem strange, but the Bible also talks about sex as well...As for your problem, I think your problem actually begins with YOU....Hear me out: as Women, we must take ownership of our bodies, and not allow any man to sleep with us who is mean, disrespectful, or even a Bad Lover--like you say..If you keep allowing your man to have sex with you in this animalistic way, then its your fault...Your body belongs to you--not your man..So, if this is your husband, you need to have a long, but kind talk with him about your need to have foreplay in order to be satisfied..If he is your boyfriend, I think its sad for you to let some guy who hasnt even married you treat you like his "blow up doll". So, you need to decide if he is worth being married to for the rest of your life. If not, move on. Peace.

Answer 2

Well, I do not have that problem but I think I can help anyway....the word is COMMUNICATION if he thinks that's what you like then that is what you are going to get. As odd as it may seem he may not know exactly how to have foreplay before PLAY if you know what I mean, so with that in mind get your books together and take him to school. Do not complain because that will shatter his ego, make him feel he is KING OF THE WORLD but at the same time suggest to him that you want to do something different and if he does not get it. Then you start the fun before making love to your partner not just sex make it more meaningful, you are worth it aren't you? If your answer is YES, then go get 'em tiger!!!

Answer 3

I dont know if you would consider it foreplay. But I am a man that loves to go down on a woman. Even when nothing else happens. I can stay down there for hours. I love to get a woman off as many times as she can stand with my tongue.

Answer 4

Have you voiced the fact that he is not pleasing you to him, or are you just assuming that it is obvious and he should figure it out? Because you have no ground to stand on if you haven't said anything to him yet.
Some men are clueless when it comes to reading women (I am one of them), and if you combine that with a lack of knowledge about sex (I am not one of them) then it can be a really bad situation. Seriously, he might have no clue that he isn't pleasing you. But I bet the real situation is something like this: he feels like he has tried to please you, it didn't work, you didn't give him any instruction, and he didn't ask. So, he just started doing what was easiest... knock it out and roll over. You shoud let him know what you want, he shouldn't have to ask, but if you don't let him know, then he needs to ask.
If you feel like someone should know without being told or having to ask, then you are expecting too much of any person... The process of learning from childhood doesn't change, but the learning process in sex doesn't start until much later. We need to learn from the ground up like children, but we feel like at the age we are we should already know... it isn't realistic.

Answer 5

Sweetie, I hope this guy is at least generous in other areas of your life, cause if he is not, you need to kick his *** to the curb yesterday. You must feel very frustrated with him. He needs to (1) learn what you like/pleases you, (2) find out that he is obviously not doing it for you (3) that if he doesn't quickly get interested in "rocking your boat" you will quickly lose interest in him, (4) learn to overcome his premature ejaculation. He can probably take care of the later one by masturbating to climax a few hours BEFORE he meets you. If this doesn';t help, he may have some issues that require professional help. Why don't you do him a favor and guide him the right way. If this guys reads, then buy him a few books on the subject and leave them on his pillow "hint, hint". Examples of books on teaching men to give women orgasms: "Sex and Spirit by John Selby", "Sensual Sex by Beverly Engel", and "Are we having fun yet? The Intelligent Woman's guide to Sex by Marcia Douglass and Lisa Douglas, PHD". Better yet, read the books together. Good luck!!

Answer 6

You looking in the wrong place, most men like myself love foreplay and pleasing a woman for the ultimate pleasure of climax. Give me a buzz ;-)

Answer 7

if u know more about Islamic religion u will know that god said that foreplay is a must in the tongue of profit Mohamed, while god who create us and knows how u feel so it is some kind of an obligation and love for all men to do before they have intercourse

Answer 8

I love foreplay and pleasing a woman, she has to get pleased before me

Answer 9

Guys that are like that SuCk!!! Luckily, my guy loves foreplay and always does it. ick ick ick, sex would suck without foreplay!!

Answer 10

i`d give you all the foreplay you can stand baby!