I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for over a year now. Last Tuesday he was supposed to get on a bus to come visit me and meet my parents. He had the ticket for a week and said that entire time he is was coming. The day he is supposed to leave comes and three hours before he is supposed to be on the bus he calls me and says he cant come. He told me it was b/c he had to be there for his family. Since then he has told me all kinds of different excuses. I've been very upset and then yesterday he told me he needs to come here and that he is going to come here. Should I trust that he actually means it or is he just trying ot make me feel better and he isnt actually coming here?
2006-08-13 07:35:33 · 4 answers · asked by Missy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
things happen, trust him for now because his excuse are reasonable
2006-08-13 07:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is stringing you along. It sounds like he has met someone else and is just trying to avoid you. Its his way of not telling you, hes moved on. Lond distance relationships never work for long. Get over him and find someone where you live.
2006-08-13 07:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anybody who uses multiple excuses and can't keep them straight is someone you can't trust.
2006-08-13 07:42:07 · answer #3 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about the issue of trust and lying/excuses
2006-08-13 07:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋