What are your turn ons, turn offs, what attracks you to him, what is coming on too strong, please include your age and your country or ethicity
2006-08-13 07:48:49 · 20 answers · asked by martin_werner2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to look for the cute guys first. Now that I am in my 30s I am more concerned with the guy being a sweetheart. Looks can/will change but the person he is inside will not change. Maybe it is materialistic but I also like the guy to have a decent car. I get embarrassed if he as a piece of sh!t car. Honesty is another big + for me. I am Caucasian. Born and raised in the US.
2006-08-13 07:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by 30somethin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a turn on is 2 b urself, have a good time together on date even though the date itself is not that good, but u and g/f can have a good time just being with each other, and pretty eyes. of course the obvius good-looking and a nice personality. turn offs. . . r being cocky, a bad smile, and other things like not opening up about different situations. coming on too strong depends on the type of the girl or how the girl is. what attracks me to a guy is personality, he don't let much get to him about situations, and i can have a good time with him. i'm 16.
2006-08-13 08:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls look for different thing is guy no one women is the same. most women look for some one who is going to take her out and show here the a great time but still be the at home bf at the same time. the look for if u r honest caring trustworthy if u are looking for just a one night thing or not. women are very sensitive animals they need some one who will be there in the roughest time of her live to hold her and help her not just pretend that they care. they need someone to tell them that they are beautiful even when they look like a mess. they need and want u to be there for her at all times no matter what happens between u and her. above all they want someone who they can one day depend on to help her raises a family and live a long wonderful life with.
2006-08-13 08:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty-cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 year old Caucasian from the USA. I like guys with confidence. I like guys who listen to most any kind of music except for rap. Usually the guys that listen to that are trash and have horrible attitudes. He should be good looking, but I have left with enough uglies that could still perform, which is more important. You only come on too strong if I am not interested and you continue to harass me.
2006-08-13 07:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by The Princess of Pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so I'm not going to tell you my age in all my info, but I'll tell you this...girls want guys that would do anything for them. Anything. Even the simpest thing. Girls want guys that are there for them throughout anything and everything. Turn offs...someone you can't trust. If they do it once, they'll do it again, and that's how we think. Give her some space, too. She wants you to want to be with her, but you should know when to stay and back off. Hope this helps...
2006-08-13 07:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
security is very important, compromise, and education wise.
Turn on, when a man make you feel like nothing in the world can hurt you, not even bad weather. turn off, men who cry because they can't do much. Looks are important though but if he had the qualities I like I would not care. Oh he has to be tall.
2006-08-13 07:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by WICCA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I figure there are five basic things women look for in a man, these can be in any order but a women who says she doesnt care about these things is either a holy women or lieing.
Power, Money, Looks, Brains, Personality,
Sometimnes power or money can be replaced by ambition, and if a chick is stupid brains are realitive.
2006-08-13 07:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by jinxintheworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's gotta be interesting and strong willed. The worst thing is a guy that's whipped before you get to him. Also, conversation is a big bonus. If he doesn't say anything that interests me, why should I stick around? Honestly, physicality doesn't matter that much as long as they aren't unwashed or anything.
18, US
2006-08-13 07:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by HottieMcPop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 USA I like a guy who's Tall, or at least taller than me I'm 5'7"
I like a guy with a good sense of humor and he has to have self confidence. I HATE guys who think there ALL THAT and come on really strong because for some reason they seem to think girls can't resist them.
2006-08-13 07:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..
Turn on - Smart, Confidence, great personality along with good looks (tall, body etc.) is a plus!
Turn off - Stupidity, laziness and uselessness are my pet peeves of the opposite sex!
2006-08-13 07:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋