I met this girl from school and we're pretty good friends, (not that close, but we talk). so i told my cousin i really liked her, since im not good at asking girls out. so she told me i better ask her out soon before sum1 else grabs her.. i wanted to ask her to dinner...but idk if it's good enuf..what should i talk about? if i can be myself on that date. how will i keep the night intresting even if it's just a dinner. AND it's going to be a first date, bcause we started off as friends, so i dnt wnna kill our friendship by ruining the date...
this sucks..
2006-08-13 07:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by griever24seven 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not change. Put it this way, you said you were friends before right? So obviously she liked you being you then so why would she not like you now? Just because it is a date does not mean you have to be a different person. In fact now that you are going on a date you can find even more things to talk about. Like what she likes in a guy stuff like that. just be nice and try to make her laugh & everything will be fine
2006-08-13 07:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something together. Dinner is good. Just be yourself, she is there to be with you, let her know the real you. Don't plan what you are going to say, but have a few topics incase the conversation stalls (are you in any classes together, what does she think about a certian teacher, or what does she think about a certian event, maybe at school or in the news). An activity is good, like minture golf. I would not suggest a movie. Everyone seems to go to movies on dates, but that doesn't let you get to know the person. Good luck, it will be great. Just be honest
2006-08-13 14:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by Rachelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends, you can ask her what was her favorite movie, or band, also don't talk much, let her talk more, women love to talk, so you should be a good listener. Also a secret thing is to eat before going to dinner otherwise you will wolf your food down and talk with your mouth full and spit food at her you male chauvinist pig. Just kidding kind of.
2006-08-13 14:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by willberb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you may want to do is start out with something casual when you two go out. Like going out for pizza and seeing a funny movie, doing something you both enjoy, or maybe just hanging out at a park or a fun place. But just keep it light and casual for now, or else it'll feel like it's going too fast. Good luck!
2006-08-13 14:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by iceisnice610 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look man its easy just invite her out as friends to do things and see how that feels see how reacts. Just dont be to forcefull. what you need to do is get more comfortable around her and let her be the same way around you. If it's met to be then it will happen. the question is if she just wants to be friends can you deal with that. Or you could always just ask a mutal friend of both of yours to see how she feels about you. which ever way you go just be yourself and try not to act like something your not because if you guys are friends she'll notice.
2006-08-13 14:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Are you for real? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. Just be yourself. You don't really have to think of conversational topics. You just ask questions... she'll answer then you build and branch off that. Be flirtatious and playful. Don't be afraid to pick at her a little bit. DON'T BE HURTFUL OR SAY SOMETHING THAT COULD BE A TOUCHY SUBJECT!
Say you ask how her day went... then she complains about how her brother was being a jerk.. then you can talk about your family or an instance when someone was being a jerk. Just feel things out and don't over think things.
2006-08-13 14:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by mazter_ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the guy a lot of questions about himself. Get him to talk.
2006-08-13 14:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE FUN, keep asking questions, and if you are already friends just hang out with her like tis another day. have fun man thats all
2006-08-13 14:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like guys that are just themselves when their on dates so just be yourself and go for it!!!!!!!! there doesnt have to be a lot 2 talk about. if u really like her then everything should just fall into place
2006-08-13 14:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is try not to talk too much and listen to what she has to say. Is there something she loves? Ask her about it.
2006-08-13 14:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋