hes goin through mid life crisis he says,hes 45,9 months together i fell in love he didnt.but yet he calls and says he misses me,we still have sex,and hes jelous if i want to date another guy,he wants his cake and to eat it too...ive started ignoring him and now hes all hot 4 me again...
2006-08-13 07:58:52 · 12 answers · asked by tammy w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on. You don't need someone like that. He doesn't want you until you move on, then he wants you again. Well it doesn't work that way. He had his chance and screwed it up. now he needs to grow up and learn how to treat people.
2006-08-13 08:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting this guy in your life? This is not love - he's just using you and trying to control you. Don't you think you deserve better than that. You not only have to ignore him, you have to cut him out of your life. That means no contact at all. Mid life crisis my a** - guys will use any excuse.
Tell him goodbye once and for all and MEAN it. Then get on with your life and find a guy that's good enough for you.
2006-08-13 15:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen the best thing to do with this guy is to not lead him on in any way. Dont have sex with him, dont answer his calls. Act like your mad at him and watch how things start to fall into place. If this guy really missed you dont you think he would be in your arms? He is playing games so either play back or let him go. Love is not something you should have to chase. You should let love find you. Trust me you will know when you are truly in love with someone.
2006-08-13 15:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Candy Girl's Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if this was a question but you answered it when you said he wants his cake and to eat it to. All he has to do is say he misses you and act nice and then you sleep with him. I have been on both sides of this situation and the best thing is to just stop and move on.
2006-08-13 15:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like he's just trying to be controlling with you because he's unsure of what he wants. If you want to work things out with him, then talk to him about it and see if he might change. If not, then don't bother trying to work things out and/or don't talk to him anymore. If you're not interested in him, talking to him and getting back together every now and then will only be leading him on.
2006-08-13 15:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want a relationship with this person then break all ties. Go on with your life. Sounds like he wants benefits without a commitment....do you? Or are you looking for someone to have a relationship with.....
2006-08-13 15:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by pepenbuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry... but it sounds like alls hes here for is the sex... he knows he can get it.. thats why. but when you try to go out with another guy he gets mad cuz thats "his territory" atleast he thinks so. I'd say just move on... show him what he lost!
2006-08-13 15:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by skeemergyrl9056 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, dump him, dump him
he probably just can't get some action from the ladies he met on the dating site
2006-08-13 15:03:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jus usin u and palyin wit u so get another guy
2006-08-13 15:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is the kind of man that doesn't want u until some1 else does. tell him to go scratch. if he doesn't know wut he wants by now he isn't the guy for u.
2006-08-13 15:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Y!um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋