i asked a question earlier today about staying with a guy who said he doesn't want a relationship....now get this. he was just here and brought his daughters and his brother with him...they stasyed about 2 hours and when they left he picks me up in a bear hug, kisses me long and hard in front of his kids and brother and says he'll call me later....calls me babe, makes sexy comments to me in front of his brother and makes it a point to let his brother know that me and him stay on the phone all night everynight...wut is going on here and why ? i just don't get it...one day he's anti everything and the next day he's all over me...
2006-08-13 08:18:53 · 29 answers · asked by raylie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't deal with boys like that. he likes u but he seems to be acting stupid with u. i go though the same thing.
2006-08-13 08:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by BoRiQuA_MaMi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The reason one day he's all over you and the next he's an anti relationship person is because he is playing you girl. Trust me on this I am a guy and i know what guy's are all about. If you dont have any kids then dont stick yourself with a loser who does. You are more than likely young and need to experience the fun things in life. Find a man that doesnt have any baggage and can do things for you. I mean there are good guys out there just find yourself and find what is best for you. Trust me... Most men arent worth wasting your time on... Have fun and live life...
2006-08-13 15:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Candy Girl's Man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the guy's probably not had much luck with the lady's in the past and now he's got you and wants everyone to think that he's "cool and he's got a girlfriend now". I think all that kissing and everything in front of his kids was very bad manners - you don't do that infront of your kids unless it's your wife or husband or a girfriend that the kids know. I think I'd sit down with this guy real soon, REAL SOON, and find out exactly "what's going on" in his head - he sounds like kind of a weirdo if you ask me. FIND OUT WHAT'S UP ASAP. Good luck
2006-08-13 15:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by You'llneverguess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can understand what you are saying! Hot then Cold.....i have the something going on right now with me too!! I hate it, What i did was sat down with him and told him how i felt and how he was always cool with me and then next i know were not talking for about a week!! What i would do is talk to me, put how you feel out there and if you runs your feeling into the ground forget him and if not then he will let you know how he feels too!!!! Guys never like to put they're feelings out there so make the first move and always remember that actions speak louder the words!!!
2006-08-13 15:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm afraid you have a guy who just can't make up his mind. And in the mean time he is using you as a yo-yo. Women are not toys. As soon as you let him know that and move on with your life the better off you will be.
2006-08-13 15:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl they dumb. Dont think of this display as anything the proof is in the puddin. What does he treat you like on a consistent basis when its just you and him. Deal with the real at all times
2006-08-13 15:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Handbagdiva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly I think this guy is scared of commitment. He just needs to suck it up and take a chance. He is down for u obviously. Talk to him about it.
2006-08-13 15:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysperfec237 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a man that has no clue to what he wants, stay clear of him. Good luck.
2006-08-13 15:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mabye he wants some and wants to keep getting some, people usaully dont change that fast.
2006-08-13 15:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When it is just you two he dosnt need to show off or act all lovely (so he thinks) but when you are infront of people he wants to show you off so they no that you are his. Its a good thing....sometimes
2006-08-13 15:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by vicky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
e either doesnt want his rother hitting on you, or he is wanting his family to think everything between you two is great and fantastic. give him a wake up call next time he pulls that crap
2006-08-13 15:21:50 · answer #11 · answered by tyler_durden_project 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋