I met 41 y/o guy in Aug of '05. We dated thru Dec. of '05. During this time he would call to chat 1-2 times a week, but never formally asked me out on a date. He would just show up where he knew I was going to be and we would go from there. I would see him around during this time, probably once a month, with other women, whom he obviously had asked out on a date. He claims them to be "dance partners", as I don't know how to dance his fancy dances (swing/cha-cha). As soon as he would see me, he would bring his "dance partner" home and come back to where I was. I got fed up with this (the fact he could not ask me out on a real date in 5 months) and told him to get lost (and not in a nice way). Now, out of the blue he is calling again, more than he ever did. He showed up where I was last Saturday, obviously looking for me. Any ideas what might be going through his head? Why is he back? He seems to be kind of relationship "dumb". Does he maybe just not know how to act with women?
2006-07-31
14:32:07
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