Women: when it comes to sex - what are men worst at in your experience?

Question

Don't be shy - you can be specific. I'm interested to see if men are generally bad at certain things eg. oral sex, lack of foreplay, not paying enough attention to certain parts of your body, not lasting long enough etc. etc. etc.

Answer 1

I am a guy and I was very selfish when I was young until I met the Ultimate Sex Godess. She was a divorced woman in her thirties and she taught me everything about how to please a woman. We would spend all day in bed sometimes and what I learnt from her was that you don't always need penetrative sex to have a good time. We spent so much time on foreplay that we didn't have any energy left for normal sex. With every other woman I have met since, I have tried to cater to her needs first and find out what pleases her and I can honestly say that,for me, the satisfaction of bringing a woman to orgasm is as great if not greater than reaching my own. Ladies, if your man is a "wham bam, thank you,mam" type, then tell him what you want him to do. Don't suffer in silence as your man snores next to you after his thirty seconds of frenetic activity. I understand how frustrating it is to have a man get your motor going only to finish before you have really got started. Another thing which applies to both sexes: Don't assume that the best sex comes with good looking partners with great bodies. I am no Brad Pitt in the looks department and I carry a few extra pounds with me, but I am fairly sure that I have never left a woman dissatisfied.

Answer 2

You could probably answer this a hundred different ways depending on personal perspectives, however I find that with the exception of my husband (GOD bless the dead), most men just don't want to take the time. The time for what you ask...... Well, just to satisfy a woman in every way. Not just straight sex, the act is great in and of itself, however there is so much more to it, the romance, the foreplay, the patience, and the importance of how you behave afterward. DON'T just act like wham bam thank you maam, be there, hold your woman, caress, cuddle, embrace, and share the love. This is all assuming of course that it's not just random sex with Joe whoever, and that it's with someone you care about. Anyway, this is all just my opinion.

Answer 3

Oral and foreplay and intimacy. I've found that guys who had girlfriends who didn't complain generally think they not doing doing anything wrong, when in fact they not pushing any of the right buttons. different girs like different things in bed, and guys should find out what we want. For starters, it would stop the OMG hurry up so I can do something I'll actually enjoy train of thought

Answer 4

It depends on the guy. For the most part I'd say either the dirty talk, sometimes they may say things that make you think "what in the hell", or they dont' use the right amt. of pressure in the areas needed or going with the tone of how the sex is going. If its slow and sweet, and they out of no where spank your ***, or if its wild and crazy and they slow down and start whispering sweet nothings. Like they just dont' know how to keep the flow going.

Answer 5

Oral

Answer 6

All men are different so i would say everything you listed. like i said all men are different so one can be bad at oral as the other can lack at foreplay.

Answer 7

foreplay and intamacy are mostly what the guys I've been with lack. They just want to get down to it instead of getting ready for it. Although I do like to just go at it and get pounded, sometimes I want a little more.

Answer 8

Foreplay!

Answer 9

foreplay, some guys just think they need to go staright to sex without even setting the mood. Sometimes it's cool to just go straight to it but when we're at home relaxed and happy a little fore play would make the sex better

Answer 10

A man is only as good as the women he is having sex with.
I claim A++ in all of the above. or die trying. see just the thoughts makes my head swell.
No look up the 1 with two eyes.