2006-07-31 14:37:49 · 32 answers · asked by ivyloves4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your crying it must be because your unhappy. Well the very best way to fix that is to just find someone that can make you happy.. Lifes way to short to be sad.. Your friend from Tennessee...ROB
2006-07-31 14:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's do some sleuthing on your crying. Only little kids are made to cry. Adults cry on their own accord due to physical or emotional pain. Of course, I agree with those answerers who suggest you should get out of that relationship if your boyfriend is harming you physically (which is easy to prove by the bruises, etc.). And you should get a restraining order against him in such a case.
However, my instinct tells me that you're young and insecure to the point that you think that it is your boyfriend that makes you cry, as if he were the cause of your suffering (let's assume you feel distraught and not physically hurt). Crying is just the outward sign of something else going on. Ask yourself why you're crying when you're with him. Is it because of things he tells you or things he does to you? What kind of things does he tell you? What kind of things do you tell him? Is there a lot of arguing going on? Is someone in this relationship trying to change the other? Lots of unanswered questions.
Good luck.
2006-07-31 14:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think of what you are getting out of the relationship, sounds to me like he is getting all the benefits and all you are getting is sad. you should do what you feel is right, which might be dumping him. that might make you sad, but in the end it could be the right thing.
2006-07-31 14:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by penguin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Love shouldn't hurt to the point where you are always crying.
2006-07-31 14:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up and smell the coffee. Dump him right away and get someone who will treat you like a princess.
2006-07-31 14:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by SNOWMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you cry a lot, then it could be that you are too emotional. But if he is causing you emotional harm, then it is certainly time for you to move on. You shouldn't even have to ask that.
2006-07-31 14:40:58 · answer #6 · answered by The B Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out how he makes you cry first. if you cry on small thing like when he chat to his old friend, when he smiles at his school mate, when he receives birthday wish from his colleage.....Are you so sensitive with him on his friends and always quarrel for these and cry?
if so, should improve yourself to be matured enough to have a boyfriend first.
2006-07-31 14:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by naw m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person that is worth crying over will not MAKE you cry.
2006-07-31 14:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by annarenee83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should have a guy that makes you smile not cry.
2006-07-31 14:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by dreamee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reasons that he makes you cry!
Does he hurt you
physically?
mentally?
2006-07-31 14:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋