this girl i know for a long time i spoke with today on my way to work fast but failed do ask her out.?

Question

this situation is that i soon will be moving to W.Orange this fall and will most likely not see her ever again but deep inside i still feel very much attracted to her. She did tell me before that she is going to be a senior in high school this september and leaves me thinking what should i do. I don't know where she usualy hangs out so i can't meet up with this during the summer meaning i'm going to have to wait to september and Hopefully see her again so i could ask her out. In addition where i work at there are plently of beautiful women which any man would want to be with and i don't feel nervous speaking to, but elizabeth i get nervous talking to her I think it could be love. What should I do forget about her and move on or should i persist with elizabeth and hopefully find her again so i ask her out and get this out of my chest once and for all?

Answer 1

In cases like this, your best bet is to just blurt it out without thinkiing, "would you like to hang out some time" or "would you like to get together and do something sometime?" She will either say:

"You're sweet, but I'm not interested."

Or

"Sure, that sounds like fun."

You go over the scenario a million times in your head, but those truly are the only viable options she will go with. If she turns you down it doesn't matter because you will never see her again. If she says yes, your in business.

If you still can't get the words out, write it on a note with your number. Try to make it a funny note so it's not so akward. I advise against the note, but occasionally it has been known to work.

And for finding her, exhaust every possible option you have. Go to the places you've seen her at, and wait there til you see her again. Whatever it takes. Best to go for one last shot and see what she says. Otherwise you will wonder forever. Or until you find someone better :)