My girlfriend has been gaining weight. How can I tell her that she's a little fat for my taste?

Question

. . . without hurting her feelings?

Answer 1

You're a moron, Don't bother telling her, Break up with her you'd be doing her a favour. Loser.

Answer 2

What and is it okay for a girl to tell a guy that he's getting flabby? Whatever. If you're uncomfortable with her outward appearances, then get rid of her. Obviously you don't really love her, because if you did, a little flab would not be a problem. She still has the same personality. If however, she seems down, then it may very well be her weight gain that is making her sad.. Of course it could also be depression that is causing weight gain. Either way, you've clearly shown that you don't really love her for who she is, so grow a spine and do the right thing and let her move on.

Answer 3

Encourage her by going for long walks together, riding a bicycle, the amusement park, healthy eating restaurants, shop together for healthy foods, plenty of swimming, workouts or other active sports. She needs your support. There could be a health issue or problems why she is not exercising such as pain in the legs or back or weight gain because of a metabolism change or hormone changes or depression due to personal loss issues. Suggest a good complete physical checkup as a routine in your lives. You will definitely hurt her feelings and insult her judgement if you tell her she is too fat. If you care, HELP HER to lose the weight WITHOUT CRITICISM of any kind. Remember she is more than just a body and a dress size.

Answer 4

i think that u can approach her without hurting her feelings. if u know her that well then u would know how to approach her without hurting her feelings. i mean u dont have to say hey honey u getting fat and u need to loose some weight b4 i leave you. you can simply ask her if anything is going on with her if their is then u should tell her that u will be there for her..if thats thecase she might be upset bc she has gained weight u never know.just sit her down and ask her. obviously to me and maybe to others if u can love her when she skinny but cant love her when she's fat then u should just let her go on with her life let someone else handle and truly love what u cant because it makes your image look bad. even if she gains 10 or 100 pounds she still will be the same person loving u. so if u cant deal with the proggressive weight gain then let her be.

Answer 5

yikes. Hmmm, that's a tough one. She's too fat for YOUR liking. Wow. Maybe get a life. Perhaps stop being so shallow. Maybe you're too shallow for HER liking.
Ok, if you really want to be an as$ and say something- perhaps just let her know that you've noticed that she's gained a few pounds, and you are telling her this by no means to hurt her feelings, but just that sometimes it's nice when someone is honest and tells people about these things, and since you're her boyfriend, you thought if anyone should be honest, it should be you. But tell her she still looks great! As$.

Answer 6

Tell her for health reason she need to drop a few pounds but tell her you love her regardless and instead of eating out tell her you will cook for her ( put her on a diet with out her knowing it) Tell her lets take a walk together and tell her how fun it is to walk and do it like every weekend. She know she is gaining but tell her she look smaller and what she is doing different, this will make her not want to eat so much cause you said she look good and last thing

...Sex hard long sex this is a work out in itself let her get on top that stimulates more exercise I hope this help!!!!

Answer 7

You CANT!

Now, its time for YOU to grow up! When people age, they will tend to put on weight, so, if you are that VAIN about your woman, then you are going to have problems all your life, trying to find the "right one" that is on the border of anarexia or starvation!!

Men and women gain weigh as they age, because its a natural process, your matabolism slows down. So, if you dont like her now, you wont like her when she gets a few years on her, and some children..(that is ALWAYS a thing with a lot of women, they cant seem to get it off, once the baby is out of the womb).

Grow up kid, and take a look at your own self...and I betcha she aint getting a prize "thin man" either...

I wish you well..

Jesse

Answer 8

well it all depend on the type of person that she is. It will also depend how sensitive she is towards her weight and herself. I believe that when you do tell her that she s beautiful, however, you have notice some change which are neither good nor bad, but would really like to see her in the shape she was when you first started dating. Either way there is no good way to say it, just make sure you don t break up with her because she' ll break down in tears. Like I said it all depends on the girl and how self conscious they are towards themselves

P.S. Good luck...............

Answer 9

how rude you probaly caused her to gain the weight by not letting her get the proper workout you shoul love her no matter how much weight she gains she is still the same person on the inside looks are not ever thing it is what is in side that counts would you want her to come home one day and say hey i think your A`S`S` IS TO BE FOR ME SO LOSE WEIGHT OR ME NO YOU WOULDN;T SO YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE HER ALONE !!!!!

Answer 10

Do something that is an active calorie-burning activities with her without telling her your true motive for planning the activities. Something you can do on a fairly regular basis together that would keep her weight down.

Answer 11

Well honesty hurts but it does set you free, his your gf, if you do not say anything she would just keep on getting bigger, coz she assumes your ok wit it,, you gotta tell her, that she's beautiful and she'll be more beautiful if she keeps her weight to the one you like, coz it would make you love her more, Relationships are based on trust and honesty. both of you should tell what you feel towards each other.