Ok i want to ask this girl i have liked for a long time out, i have never asked anyone before so dont know how exactly i should except just go up to her and directly say will you go out with me, that doesnt seem right to me i dont know why, im 16 and in highschool we are already friends and im not gay so dont even ask cause in previous questions people have so **** you if you ask
2006-07-31 14:33:35 · 12 answers · asked by helloboredom28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well since shes your friend i guess it makes it harder and easier at the same time! How about you just go up to her and start a small conversation (please dont ask about weather...or that kinda stuff) then...remind her how long yall have been friends and how many fun times u guys had...then just ask the question! "Will you go out with me" or "Will you be my gurl" whichever one you want. But take it slowly!
2006-07-31 14:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha. Why do people still think shy boys are naturally gay. Shesh...
I myself didn't date anyone until I was 24 and I ended up marrying my first love, so first thing, don't rush anything.
As for this girl. You said you're friends already with her. Does she have a boyfriend or someone that she might be interested in? If not, and you think she might like you, then just ask her out. The worse that could happen is she says no, things get weird between you two, and then you're not friends anymore.
The best thing is that she says yes, you hit it off great, and then you become high school sweethearts and end up marrying each other.
You have to weigh the risks and pitfalls/benefits of both, make a decision, and then go for it. I didn't date until I was 24, but I got rejected three or four times leading to 24 and I survived each time. I was loser with a capital "L" !!!!
Good luck.
2006-07-31 21:39:40 · answer #2 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there! Maybe what you can do since the two of you are already friends is just ask her if she wants to have lunch or go to the movies sometime. Then after that has gone well then maybe you should tell her gently that you have feelings for her and you just want her to know that. Sometimes if you just tell the person that you LIKE THEM instead of asking them out on the spot they will feel more ready to talk to you another time about considering you as a boyfriend and less pressured to tell you anything right there and then. Hope this helps you out!
2006-07-31 21:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by oh_so_tan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom and if you were asking my daughter out I think if you were to "shy" to ask her out face to face- How about sending her a card asking her out? Maybe "thinking of you" card {blank inside}! Write your own message! Where you want to take her and what you would like to do! If your friends already it'll be a nice surprize! This is a little bit nicer than a call too! She'll appreciate you taking the time to find a "nice" card and writing ! If you don't know her address look it up in a phone book or ask one of your friends that know her but don't tell them what you want it for because it might get back to her! Good Luck, I hope she says yes!
2006-07-31 21:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she'd like to go to the mall, movies, mini golf whatever. The more fun the activity the less pressure either of you will feel. If you have mutual friends who are dating double with them. Groups are good but not so many people that you can't be 1 on 1.
2006-07-31 21:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by dropkickchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to the movies or something, go out for a bite to eat afterwards, and tell her there how you feel about her, then ask if she's interested in a relationship with you.
2006-07-31 21:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by DeadxStar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her...
If you are looking for a more romantic approch send her a love letter or poem.
or ask her with a white rose(or more even) to signify your intention's are pure.
And whatever you do, be your self
and above all good luck!!!!!
2006-07-31 21:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by pandala777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If y'all are friends then just bring up the idea while talking. And see how she reacts and go with that. You should be able to tell if she's intrigued by the thought.
2006-07-31 21:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh first i assuem you know that she likes you too.. um if not, talk to her best friends first let them know that you like her, and obviously they will tell her, and so she won;t be surprised. don't do it in front of a lot of people, or over your cell phone or something lame. Ahh cuz if you dont; let her now that you like her first she will be surprised and 19% more to reject you. Yeah my dad is a shrink.. but basically be confident, girls like confidence, and be nice. But yhea..
2006-07-31 21:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out by talking how you normally talk to her, and slowly ask her into a date...^_^
2006-07-31 21:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Eggenbegger017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋