Singles & Dating - 30 July 2006

When women list what they look for in a guy, it's always sense of humor, great personality, ect. But they don't list good looks or attractive or handsome. Is it because it is generally understood that you must be good-looking, so therefore you don't need to list it? Most guys have all of those great qualities, but when you find out that they are just average-looking or ugly, you are not attractive to them anymore. So, is it that you must be good-looking FIRST AND FOREMOST and then if you have all the other great qualities, then women will fall for you?

2006-07-30 14:36:36 · 14 answers · asked by NJboy 3

my parents were away for the weekend and my brother has his friends over like he always do. so i was in my room watching tv and his friend came into my room he was soo cute but i never told any 1 that (btw) and just so u know his friend is 17 and i am 16. so his friend kept asking me questions. they were stupid questions like what do i like watching on tv and crap. anyway i was laughing and then he kissed me. i was so shocked. the next thing i know we r kissing and then hes taking off his shirt. im like OMG but then im like yay at the same time so we did it. i was scared but it happened. so he left and went to talk to my brother and the rest of his friends. so when im go to parties and to the store ppl from school stare at me i don't know if they knew what happened but i think they do. last night some 1 kept calling here and asking for a botty call i dunno who it was but i just came from school earlier today and every 1 is like shes a hoe and my teacher called my mom what do i do?????

2006-07-30 14:33:42 · 10 answers · asked by Teisha 1

we were so happy n in love all of a sudden he left me for no reason everything was perfect although he had issues goin on at home so i think he was unsure what would happen wit that n we belong together what happened was that he said idk if i wan a gf anymore next day he wanted to sleep wit me next day he said hes wit his ex which 2 months lata i found out was a lie next day yelled at me n threatened me for no reason after that ignored me for 2 months then out of the blue started talkin to me one day n being sweet n kind n all to me the wayhe really is n acts b4 he changed and hurt me more then any1 else ever has and ever will he then asked if i was datin any1or if i slept with any guys then asked if i would with him after that he ignored me for 2 months not sure might have had to do wit his situation at home then started talkin to me recently he wants to hangout spend time together n sleep 2gether idk wut to do coz im still in love with him and always will be

2006-07-30 14:32:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend who is a guy told me that he loved me. I love him too but I didn't think he had the same feelings for me. We have slept together before. When I tried to return those feelings, he slept with another girl to make me see that hes not the man for me. Why tell me you love me if you dont really want me? Why do guys do stupid things? I love him so much still and I dont want to stop being his friend cause we been friends for over 5 years. I need advice. Please help.

2006-07-30 14:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by whisper_a_dream26 1

Like what if you were haveing sex with someone and there babys name is in your face? Would that be a mood killer

2006-07-30 14:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by Ben Quick 2

Theres this guy. I first met him when I took my car to be looked at where he works. Hes a mechanic. I see him all around town every day. We have talked a few times and I can tell hes interrested. I dont know if he is single though. Its been 4 months since we first met. I cant get him out of my mind. I want so bad to ask him out. But im too shy. I dont know what to do. Should I just forget about him and move on? How do I let him know im single and interrested in him?

2006-07-30 14:30:20 · 4 answers · asked by eranjc 1

I,m 45 . He,s about28. I look younger, by8 to 10 years.I see him every day. I use to speak I don,t know why I stopped speaking. What,s a few good words to start a conversation.

2006-07-30 14:29:01 · 1 answers · asked by Scoreforluck 1

2006-07-30 14:28:07 · 16 answers · asked by dee101 1

i know its just a saying but i've had 3 loves and two of them cheated on me while the other just kinda left. i've thought of everything that i could have ****** up on and nothing comes to mind or my friends minds. and all of my close girl-friends tell me that i am a nice guy. it feels like im always getting used and i've never treated any girl like ****, and im far from starting to, but why is that all the dick heads can stay with their girl forever but us nice guys just get used?

2006-07-30 14:24:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know a lot of you are going to call me sad...

I love the idea of there being someone special out there - just that one person that sets off fireworks in your heart.

Are soulmates real....?

2006-07-30 14:23:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 14:20:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend usually talk on the phone every nite but he hasnt called me the last two nites and i havnt been able to get ahold of him. we had sex for the first time 2 days ago, and i havnt really heard from him since, so whats up?

2006-07-30 14:20:15 · 10 answers · asked by dark goddess 2

like, can a guy/girl misunderstand you, if your flirty by nature? im confused here....

2006-07-30 14:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by Marie 3

I'm still in love with my EX. I brock up with him cause he still has fellings for his ex, I have had that happen to me before and get hurt... What Should I DO? He says he loves me more than her or anyone else. What to do !!!!!!

2006-07-30 14:17:45 · 2 answers · asked by Arry 2

i need some help!!!
i found out that my boyfriend was talking to girls on internet...he was talking sexually to them.
that was like 2 months ago. he said he was sorry and that he never cheated on me because he never touched this girls. he left to boot-camp (the army) and he has been calling me and sending me letters telling me that he is sorry, that he loves me, that i'm the love of his life and that he wants to marry me. also i found out that he was talking to his ex nothing bad but he never told me.
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
since the day he left i found a good friend... he told me he likes me and that he wants to start a relationship with me, i told him i have a boyfriend but i also like him. WHAT SOULD I DO???
PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2006-07-30 14:16:25 · 14 answers · asked by teddy 1

he gets pi******* off but when i tell him if you can't handle the truth don't ask .What should I do next time he asks?

2006-07-30 14:16:11 · 1 answers · asked by meisha 2

Why she left me….

I cheated with her sister
I lied and stole her car
But she ignored it all
And supported my trips to the bar

My porn collection is huge
I was fat and pretty smelly
But she cooked like a chef
And made love to me over my belly

I thought I was so cool
Figured I was immune to loss
But I finally did the thing
That made her give my *** a toss

Seems you should never answer ‘yes’
To this question by any means
Honey tell the truth,
Do I look fat in these jeans?

2006-07-30 14:16:03 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6

like for a gril that u were sprung off and just cause she broke up with u u fealt like u werent meant to live without her so u try to kill your self for that

2006-07-30 14:15:39 · 25 answers · asked by lil cutie_rosa#1 1

2006-07-30 14:13:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it true? Or do women just lookin for free drinks? Or is there some sensual / mysterious allure of a bartender? Just wonderin. I am a bartender and am very curious.

Thanks ladies!

2006-07-30 14:12:25 · 14 answers · asked by Chef 2

We've been together almost 3 months now and I do love him to death! But should I still wait?

2006-07-30 14:11:40 · 7 answers · asked by New New 2

my ex wants me back. and i don't want him back. and he's such a fragile guy that i'm afraid to say "no", i keep saying "maybe" cause i'm afraid to break him. i mean all guys put themselves up as 'tough' but i can see through this guy. the answer may seem obvious to you, but not to me..... what should i do?

2006-07-30 14:10:00 · 9 answers · asked by Mafia 2

like how old were u and where at and how did it make u feel and i dont mean a little kiss like u liked her but she didnt dare kiss but a true love one

2006-07-30 14:09:48 · 1 answers · asked by lil cutie_rosa#1 1

2006-07-30 14:09:41 · 8 answers · asked by 206 BALLER 3

If i do will it be like sign a death warrant on our relationship bcuz once we share this excperince wat if wants to try it with other woman shuld i make him wait...?How dose it feel 4 guys there 1st time?

2006-07-30 14:08:50 · 16 answers · asked by cr@zi3L0v3 1

like how old were u and where at and how did it make u feel and i dont mean a little kiss like u liked her but she didnt dare kiss like tru love

2006-07-30 14:08:05 · 4 answers · asked by lil cutie_rosa#1 1

Be honest...

2006-07-30 14:07:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-30 14:07:51 · 24 answers · asked by golden_mermaid 4

Ok everytime I look at a girls all I can think is having sex with them. I am 20 year old guy. I think of them only as sex objects. I dont want to have any relation or family with them just sex.Is it wrong to think that way? And if I know that I am not gonna have sex or try to do it I am not even gonna talk to them. I dont know what to talk to them about or why do people even need relations besides having kids? Am I just still kind of immature or something? How can I get my mind straight that there is much more than sex, like long term relationships, feelings and time spending together and all the that stuff. Does anybody also thinks this way or will it change later in life?

2006-07-30 14:05:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am open. I'm going to need my nose! Lol. So is it time for me to give it up to him or keep ahold of it. We've been together for like going on 3 months now so he's been paitent. What should I do?

2006-07-30 14:04:16 · 13 answers · asked by New New 2