we were so happy n in love all of a sudden he left me for no reason everything was perfect although he had issues goin on at home so i think he was unsure what would happen wit that n we belong together what happened was that he said idk if i wan a gf anymore next day he wanted to sleep wit me next day he said hes wit his ex which 2 months lata i found out was a lie next day yelled at me n threatened me for no reason after that ignored me for 2 months then out of the blue started talkin to me one day n being sweet n kind n all to me the wayhe really is n acts b4 he changed and hurt me more then any1 else ever has and ever will he then asked if i was datin any1or if i slept with any guys then asked if i would with him after that he ignored me for 2 months not sure might have had to do wit his situation at home then started talkin to me recently he wants to hangout spend time together n sleep 2gether idk wut to do coz im still in love with him and always will be
2006-07-30 14:32:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is the love of my life and i will always love him forever and for always
2006-07-30 14:33:38 · update #1
Take care of yourself first, do things you like doing without him, and make sure you have a good support system of friends to rely on. Try asking him about why he does this?? Remember only you can decide what to do, no matter what advice anyone gives you.
2006-07-30 14:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by TheyreComingToTakeMeAwayHaHa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first thing....he is NOT the love of your life. You robably will love him the rest of your life, b ut there will be others. He might love you very much- but he isn't capable of a relationship. When we girls get with a guy like that, we have this urge to take care of him and rescue him. Some how we women fall deeply for those kind of guys. So.....love him, but NEVER be in a relationship with him. He is using your kindness & maybe genuienly want to be with you,but it does seem like he is using you.If he is like htis now....he will get worse the older he gets. Unless he finally gets lots of counseling. He is a desaster waiting to happen.
Look at your background...do the females in your family setttle for men who use and abuse them?
You deserve a good healthy relationship. Hold out for that kind of guy. You can't fix him. Move on hon or he will come in and out of your life. It is ok to love him, treasure that. but loving someone doesn't mean he should be the man in your life. You might not umderstand this until you get older.
Be strong, stand firm and stop the roller coaster ride with this guy.
2006-07-30 14:50:34 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE HURTS
be glad you're finding about his ways now. It seem as if he wanted to take a break but wasn't true to you about it and didn't want to hurt your feelings. He found out what he was doing wasn't to his taste and he wants what he had before. But you gotta be careful love Will have you blind behind him. Let's say he's having problems again and wants to let you go. do you not believe that anything can be accomplished together with your help? If he bails out on the little **** think about if you get married what he would do.
AND THAT'S REAL
2006-07-30 14:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by LDYBLK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you nonetheless have emotions on your ex? in case you dont have emotions, dont difficulty/sense responsible too plenty! he's your ex boyfriend, you're sure to continuously think of a few issues he does are candy. Ive gotta say however....... if your boyfriend exhibits out i do no longer think of he would be happy! possibly it may be suitable in case you instructed him your self, i think of he'd comprehend greater in case you heard it from you and he ought to additionally be waiting to help if youre at a loss for words approximately all of it! :) i desire it seems ok!
2016-10-01 06:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he has alot of issues.If he truly cared about you he wouldn't talk to you one day and then quit talking to you for 2 months.Maybe he has other women he messes with and then he comes back to you.I know you think he is the love of your life but I truly feel that you need to dump him and move on to someone who will treat you the way you deserve.
2006-07-30 15:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it from a guy if he bought up havign sex thats all he wants I SWEAR!! i will promise you he will be nice tell youi wat you wanna hear and then hit it and quit it.some dudes are like that. i understand you love him but dont give yourself to someone your not sure they love you back or 100% sure they will stay with you. im sure you can do better than that. try this. tell himyea i wanna talk but we cant have sex until we go out. if he asks you out wai tlike 3 weeks... i assure you u will be history. dont put yourslef through that pain of being left agian.
2006-07-30 14:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him asap. You do not need this type of "drama". Run as fast as you can away from him. He has no respect for you. He ignores you, forces you to sleep with in and treats you poorly....Come on now, you can do better than that...That is NOT love....
2006-07-30 14:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by perplexed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even the ppl we love the most can hurt us the most. sounds like hes using you for his own purpose. dont go backwards move forwards there will be someone much better round the corner
2006-07-30 14:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh.. I would offer my advice but I can't read this. It's a huge run on sentence with horrible abbreviations..
2006-07-30 14:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the longest run on sentence i've ever read in my life. try using some periods. i couldnt understand it.
2006-07-30 14:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by xtc_detroit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋