i know its just a saying but i've had 3 loves and two of them cheated on me while the other just kinda left. i've thought of everything that i could have ****** up on and nothing comes to mind or my friends minds. and all of my close girl-friends tell me that i am a nice guy. it feels like im always getting used and i've never treated any girl like ****, and im far from starting to, but why is that all the dick heads can stay with their girl forever but us nice guys just get used?
2006-07-30 14:24:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i do stand up for what i am and believe in thank you very much.
2006-07-30 14:40:06 · update #1
good things come to those who wait-----either you are just trying too hard----or you are finding the wrong girls.
Try to find a woman who has been through what you have---there are alot out there who want a "nice guy" they are normally above the age of 24 though----so if you arn't that old yet that might be the probelm------woman who are younger tend to want to have fun---and will get invloved with jerks----then they wisen up----you sound like a good guy DONT change for any reason---you will find somoene when y ou least expect it
2006-07-30 14:37:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't I have a great nice guy :) you'll find a girl who is willing to appreciate you. You're probably dating stupid little girls who just want the greener grass on the other side. They'll grow up and realize that YOU'RE the greenest grass not the scruffy tough guys. No worries :) Keep being a nice guy don't change.
2006-07-30 14:27:48 · answer #2 · answered by USCfemme10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with being a nice guy. Although nice guys are generally predictable and boring and smother girls by being needy and clingy. Bad boys are usually exciting, fun and unpredictable. Combine the two and you will be all set. Be nice to your women but be daring and fun and keep things fresh.
2006-07-30 14:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a GAME u hav to pretend not to want the other person so they want u more - its pathetic but true
if u like some1 u should tell them but then u come across as tryin to hard or bein needy and that is the kiss of death
become a playa or a 'dick head' then u get what u want
2006-07-30 14:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank to American popular culture, Hollywood, MTV, Hip Hop and MacDo nice guys are being driven to the point of extinction. So don't be a nice guy if you don't want to finish last. Kick all their asses is the way to go.
2006-07-30 14:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by ChevalierCourageux 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're a pussy..and girls don't wanna date other girls...if they all did they'd all be les....so there's like 10 percent of the population for the nice guys to fit in with...and girl's who are really les don't want anything to do with any kind of guy...therefore nice guys finish in last place
2006-07-30 14:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by unkie_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're commonly watching for the improper forms of females. The forms that might opt for unhealthy men. And except, I do not believe first-class men conclude final, simply vulnerable men. Nice men can also be powerful too.
2016-08-28 15:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women go for the hunky guys who are bad boys only to find that these guys think they are above the woman they are with which leaves of wishing for something great an equal and thats when you come in nice guy
2006-07-30 14:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my life... but I am a girl.... cause nice people don't stick up for themselves.... I would recommend not getting involved with a girl until you really know her.... which is hard. Cheating suxs, I don't understand it either. Don't worry there has to be some nice girl out there that wants a nice guy.
2006-07-30 14:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that sucks. Its okay I've never done wrong to a boyfriend and seem to get hurt by them all... I'm thinking about giving up dating for awhile tired of getting hurt...
2006-07-30 14:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by Arry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋