me and my boyfriend usually talk on the phone every nite but he hasnt called me the last two nites and i havnt been able to get ahold of him. we had sex for the first time 2 days ago, and i havnt really heard from him since, so whats up?
2006-07-30 14:20:15 · 10 answers · asked by dark goddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This might be one option: It is actually common for a guy to pull away emotionally after sex. They feel embarassed that they exposed themselves emotionally and left themselves vulnerable. If that's the case, talk to him about it and see if there's a way you can work around it. But that might be hard if you can't get a hold of him. That's a tough one but maybe you should try driving down to his house or any other means of physically tracking him down and asking what's up. You two shared a very special and intimate thing and the last thing he should do is be evasive with you. Good luck sweetie.
2006-07-30 14:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by nintendofreak91788 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you, I do not know. Maybe an emergency came up or something like that. It is hard to say, but he should not leave you hanging, he should either e mail you or stop by and tell you what's up.
If I were you , I would find other ways to contact him, such as through a friend or by going to his place or something.
I hope for your sake he was not just using you for his own satisfaction
2006-07-30 14:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you guys have been dating... if only a short time he might have been using u..... however sometimes guys need time to chill out from girls.... give him a break... don't call him wait for like 3 days... if he doesn't call then dump his lame ***.
2006-07-30 14:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say he used u but i dont know maybe hes shy because the last time he talked to you was welli wont go into details sometimes i do the same and not even realize it
2006-07-30 14:25:05 · answer #4 · answered by fenderstrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u lost ur virginity to a jackass! Sorry sweetie, ur too young to be having it. I was gonna say he's busy. Unless he's shy. Otherwise IT'S OVER. He waited till he got what he wanted and now he don't want you.
2006-07-30 14:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MAN GIRL I HATE TO EVEN SAY IT BUT YEAH IT SOUNDS LIKE HE JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AND THEN DUMP YOU!!!! HOPEFULLY HE'LL CALL YOU AGAIN VERY SOON AND IF NOT THEN I GUESS MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE WHOS REALLY WORTH YOUR TIME.
2006-07-30 14:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a loser and you should be glad to be rid of him. It sounds like he used you and now he's done.
2006-07-30 14:26:10 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted and now he is done with you...Dont give it up mext time
2006-07-30 14:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used u for sex and dump u
2006-07-30 14:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by shakerrawashington@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he got what he wanted. he just used you.
2006-07-30 14:22:54 · answer #10 · answered by bullfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋