2006-07-30 14:07:51 · 24 answers · asked by golden_mermaid 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it only dies if u want people let it.. people have this concieved notion that love is like a fairytale.. but its not.. realistically, love, marriage ect.. take alot of work, and if either of you dont want to put in the effort of making it work, then for that person they werent ever "really" in love, love isnt a faucet that can be turned off.. the people i have loved in my life, theres still a part of me that loves them.. not in the same way of course, but a weakness in my heart for them.. so real love never dies.. it only dies when only one is really in love, or neither are really in love..
2006-07-30 14:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love Die
2016-11-01 23:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by cronce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think without doubt that much of what is felt at first is a lusting. Especially if you are physically attracted. After time, however, the need to base a relationship on something more solid is where most people loose interest (love).
The thing about love is that it is above everything else. It's the desire in your heart to know that the other person is happy. Whether their happiness is a result of your own doing is irrelevant. If there is really love there, then it is definitely possible that a couple could grow apart but still love each other. That is a part of life, really. We all will meet people that will bring a special light into our lives for a short time or for a long time. It is important to recognize those people when they come but even more important to recognize them when they go. It pays homage to them.
2006-07-30 16:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jimmy V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Maybe its because sometimes people change, or make mistakes that they wish they could take back later on, my parents got divorced about a year ago, and it had a lot to do with not knowing each other as well as they thought they did. Some people like the chase, i think im one of those people, i enjoy trying to get someone i like, just to see if i can, and if i do, i get bored, like the challenge is over....its bad, and i'm not proud of it, i need to not do that anymore because i end up hurting people, but maybe love never really DIES, maybe it just fades away, and until that person is out of your life, you don't realize how much you miss them? heck, i dont know...just a guess..lol.
2006-07-30 14:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't die. It only matures over time into a fondness and appreciation for that which we became attracted to in the first place.
2006-07-30 14:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by The Good Humor Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I love you" is so quaint”. There is only one Love. All you can do is learn how to do a relationship comfortably, especially with yourself, and then share in that one Love as strings on a violin that never touch yet make beautiful music together. People so misuse the word love when what they really mean is… familiarity, neediness, possessiveness, ‘the better half’, co-dependency, dependency, addiction to relationships, competiveness, conquering, domination, submission, controlling, self-identity of only a mother, over mothering, and so on.
2006-07-30 14:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Richard15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think love dies...love changes...love is something people throw around around like it's a toy...love is a gift...we as people are constantly saying we love people, but what we should be saying is..."I lust you."..."I'm attracted to something about you."...people call all these different emotions and attractions love...
...love does not die...
...it grows...
2006-07-30 16:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by Dilisa T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love dies because we get to tangled up in the old crap and can't get past things. We either don't forgive or don't get forgiven. Then someone tells how wronged we have been and how they would never ......... you know the rest. I guess not being forgiving kills love.
2006-07-30 14:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love never dies. That doesn't mean that all will be "Happily Ever After". I still love those in my past who I broke up with or never quite got together with. Something just wasn't meant to keep us together, but it wasn't love dying.
2006-07-30 14:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is , The reason why love dies is because you or they were never in love to begin with.... It was only an illusion.
2006-07-30 14:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by Harry Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋