Singles & Dating - 17 July 2006

when i am in a relationship, i give my man what he wants without being too needy or dependant on him, i take care of him every way i know how,i am there for the good and the bad times.i am not a fighter and i don't like drama, nor do i like to argue, and i can be submissive at times when i need to be. i love him unconditionally and i am very upfront, honest and open with, but he feels like he has to lie and cheat on me, why are men like this,is there something wrong with me; i am very attractive woman(or so they tell me), but he still feels like there is something more he needs, WHY?, so could you please tell me what is wrong with the men today, why can't they just be with the one they claim to love?, any advice is greatly appreciated.

2006-07-17 15:26:25 · 18 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 2

2006-07-17 15:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

dated this guy for 3 1/2 months and he told me he was falling for me and one day he text me and said i think we need to spend time away from each other i want to be single for now. well today i get a text he said how are u doing? i told him i was good he said are u talking to someone i said yea i am. he said oh. well he said i got a new g/f and i am happy. i said i must be special if u are texting me to see how i am. and dont care about her which i dont? he said i was just wondering how u are i said i know u miss me and i dont care about her. why wont he just let me go? i am not jealous i was doing fine until that text came to me. if its not meant to be why wont he leave me alone? or is playing her to?

2006-07-17 15:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by sexy_catwoman23 1

Ok, my boyfriend used to be a typical male, looked at other girls, told me I should dye my hair, lose weight ect. Then we fought over it for a long time, made me cry lost of times and I even left him for a few days. That all happened like 3 months ago NOW he says that he was an idiot and that since I was his first real g/f he really didnt know what to do. He felt so bad he cried (he HATES to cry) he hurt himself, he even got me a $300 ring. Now he says that he HATES other girls and he loves me just the way I am. He said he dont even care to look at other girls, he wishes there were NO other girls around. what do you think? Has he really changed? Is it EVEN POSSIBLE for a male to NOT care to look at other women? We've been together for 9 months and wanna get married. I can see a visible change in personality, but Im nervous to belive that he NEVER looks at a "sexy" chick even if she had everything he wanted "before he changed" some please help! Is this guy for real?? This rides on us!!

2006-07-17 15:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by Trisha 1

what is a girls perfect body?

2006-07-17 15:24:42 · 9 answers · asked by some sexy girl 1

Ok so my Sycodic uppsessive boyfriend that hates me because Im a nympho finally drew the line when he broke my wrist and my hand 3 nights ago what do I do I cant help but love the boy but Im scared if I dont get away from him he might really hurt me everywhere I go hes there

2006-07-17 15:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by Reychal E 1

pls help

2006-07-17 15:21:58 · 20 answers · asked by lztexan 3

How long did it take you to deal with it and accept it? I think it happens to a lot of people, that you realize your not attractive any longer or you never were, or your marriage doesn't include sex anymore, etc. I realized this 9 years ago and it took me a few years to accept it, now I am pretty happy with my celibe life. I wanted to know how many other people are on the same boat.

2006-07-17 15:19:57 · 5 answers · asked by triste88 2

How come when ever I meet someone on-line they are always beautiful?? Where are all the ugly people??

2006-07-17 15:19:18 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4

2006-07-17 15:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay. Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months. I told him that I would be moving away if I got into the graduate school I've been wanting to get into. So he's known long before we even started dating.
Well, I got into the school. I found out on Friday night. The school is in NC and both of us are currently in NY. When I told him he congratulated me but really sounded disappointed. Now, I feel like he's avoiding me because I'm leaving. The program is only for 2 years since I'm not doing the thesis portion of the masters program.
I don't know why he's avoiding me. Do you think it's because he needs time to adjust and accept it? Or do you think we are drifting apart? I really love the guy, but I'm really at a loss on this.
Any advice, suggestions, opinions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

2006-07-17 15:16:18 · 20 answers · asked by knifelvr 4

do i approach her if she's with a friend?
or do i wait for her to be alone?
cause i personally think it's rude to do it while ignoring the other girl or making it obvious that i want to talk to the girl i want to talk to

2006-07-17 15:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by Rock 4

2006-07-17 15:15:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in spokane, WA. I'm shy and attractive, and yes this is an advertisement for me, look for the BeerMotrons on any search engine.

2006-07-17 15:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by Mob_Barley 1

2006-07-17 15:12:51 · 3 answers · asked by KB 2

I don't drink or go to bars. Been sober 14 yrs. I'm 52 and really am not sure where to go to meet woman at my age. Any suggestions?

2006-07-17 15:11:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's my last week of rehersals until my summer show.
The guy that has been playing head games with me (flirting with the girls around me, flirting with me, sexy hugs, ignoring me...) didn't say hi today. He just walked past me and made a noise from the show. I gave a limp smile. Then later he ruffled my hair as he passed - not quick and light, but hard.
Thanks (not really).
He also was jittery as I sat next to him.
Anyway, what the hell is going on in his head? What with the games, the way I'm nonchalant and not too responsive (some girls are too easy), the whole "I will ignore her - but ooh, those curls look lucious today action" and well, another guy told me I had the nicest legs ("wear jeans more often').
And he was paying very close attention to that.
So...can you read him???

2006-07-17 15:09:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 15:05:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

one that isnt a dick or a stoner....(or gay)
and i do love the emo/skater/ scene kid look
does a guy like this even exist??
i dont know how to even meet any cute guys even cuz all of my friends say that none of them are "good" enough for me...

2006-07-17 15:04:06 · 10 answers · asked by elemenopee. 4

My boyfriend took a nap after he got home from work, when he woke up I asked him if he wanted a drink and he told me not to f'ing talk to him and that I never f'ing listen to him and he stormed out slammed the door and took off. I called his moms house and sure enough thats where he went, he doesn't want to talk to me andhe doesn't know if he's going to come home. What did I do?

2006-07-17 15:03:26 · 49 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4

We've been together for three months now. His cousin and i r really close, the cousins tells me that the guy i like really like me, but he doesnt show it unless we r alone wit each other. But im worried becuz he doesnt call, we only talk on the net. and i go over his house a couple of times and we act like a couple i dont mean sex now. But im wondering if he really likes me as much as his cousin says. Wat do u think?

2006-07-17 15:02:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 15:01:51 · 23 answers · asked by briana m 2

He says he doesn't mind if I do it with girls on the side. But now that we have been together for a while, I feel I should only do it with him. Also, I think he does mind, even though he says he doesn't. On the other hand, my girlfriend would be disappointed if I give up sex with her and only want to be just friends with her again.

2006-07-17 15:01:09 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 3

2006-07-17 15:00:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my fiance' very much. I just wish he would initiate sex a little more. How do I get him to do so?

2006-07-17 15:00:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-17 14:55:26 · 19 answers · asked by potatoe 2

EVERY submissive girl or any girl into BDSM i've ever talked to at first shows as if shes the perfect girl, shes willing to travel to meet you and she doesnt care about money or anything. she likes you and acts like she doesnt want to lose you. and after a while she says "ive met someone new that im talking to" and she doesnt give a crap about you, says that she doesnt wanna come over anymore and then leaves? EVERYTIME. Why?? does ANYONE in this world take bdsm online dating seriously?

2006-07-17 14:54:53 · 3 answers · asked by jextreme_22 2

he's like a really good friend to

2006-07-17 14:51:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend told me that a girl that Had called a long timeago was just a friend and i found out through reliable sources that they had sex! before him and i met.....should i be mad.

2006-07-17 14:50:51 · 17 answers · asked by Shana H 3

2006-07-17 14:49:50 · 18 answers · asked by Coodles 5