dated this guy for 3 1/2 months and he told me he was falling for me and one day he text me and said i think we need to spend time away from each other i want to be single for now. well today i get a text he said how are u doing? i told him i was good he said are u talking to someone i said yea i am. he said oh. well he said i got a new g/f and i am happy. i said i must be special if u are texting me to see how i am. and dont care about her which i dont? he said i was just wondering how u are i said i know u miss me and i dont care about her. why wont he just let me go? i am not jealous i was doing fine until that text came to me. if its not meant to be why wont he leave me alone? or is playing her to?
2006-07-17 15:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by sexy_catwoman23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he asked me if i was seeing anyone i said yes i am then he said later i am to i am really happy is he dating someone? or wanting me back?
2006-07-17 15:39:50 · update #1
he is playing the field girl..
when one is available that's who he's with then he switches to another and another and so on..
leave him where he's at, he is a waste of time and energy.
2006-07-17 15:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably lying in the first place. And he may just be trying to make you jealous so you will come back.
Also, when i clicked this, i thought it would be more extreme then text messaging.
If its text messaging, tell him that you wish to be single and would better not talk to him until he accepts that.
If he doesnt accept it, then dont respond. Dont communicate.
By communicating your making it to where he see's himself as still "being in the game".
2006-07-17 15:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he says he loves u and then he wanted time away from ya, ow he's ready to come back and he thinks ur waiting for him?
NO, NO sweetie, thats noot how it goes. Tell him ur not ready to get back with him just because he's ready. Tell him ur enjoying time away from him( then say thanks thats was the best idea)
Then tell him ur involved with someone, u meet him while he wanted to take a break from each other.
2006-07-17 15:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it! Men like to have their cake and ice cream together, and will as long as they can get away with it. So, you keep your life in the direction it's going, without him, and be happy.
2006-07-17 15:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't leave u alone b/c u take the bait...when he texts u, u text him back......start ignoring him when he does that.....then he'll get the hint....by u responding, he has reason to carry on the conversation.....Good luck!!
2006-07-17 15:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just forget that he text messaged you and keep on going with your life. Don't let him screw you up!!!
2006-07-17 15:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he still like you or hes playin 1 of yall luck :)
2006-07-17 15:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by hotcakelaugh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are attached, and he wants to see if he can get you from the new guy
2006-07-17 15:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him keep runing,but you just don't fall for him?
2006-07-17 15:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by mis,bossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's on an ego trip. you deserve better.
2006-07-17 15:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by lindajean57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋