2006-07-17 15:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not a girl but I can give you the right answer, unless you're afraid of the truth. Here's the deal, you want to be good with a girl (and presumably girls...plural). First you need to not be a wussy man. And by wussy man Im talking like sucking up the girl, buy her affection/buying your way to her heart, treating her like a perfect angel all the time, being predictable, not being decisive ("I donno, where do you want to go/want to do?"). This is typical wussy man/nice guy behavior and it is NOT attractive at all to a girl. It's all about attraction. Showing her the opposite of wussy man behavior like being interesting, cocky & funny, challenging, a good communicator, being assertive (knowing what you want but also taking other peoples ideas into consideration), and not being needy. Treat her like your bratty younger sister. Email me if you need more help. Good luck man.
2006-07-17 15:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all...Be yourself. (Bet you are tired of hearing that) But that's all it takes. You don't want to change yourself to impress anyone!
Second...Lots of flirting...women love to hear how good they look ...make them feel special...give them attention (not too much cause they might get a restraining order),
Third....Girls love confidence...if you show you have some they will be a lot more interested. (Trust me) It shows in the way you carry yourself and the way you talk (look at them in the eyes) to them.
Follow those and you can't loose!
Good luck!
P.S. That Jon J guy is almost right on the dot....Now-a-days girls like the BAD boys (don't know why) I don't even think they know why. But it is all about CONFIDENCE!!!!
2006-07-17 22:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by sadie1_9_99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, ask her, talk to her.Get in conversation as much as possible. Then maybe she'll go out with ya and be your gf.
2006-07-17 22:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Giina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is just be urself. and try to b friends wit her first and then u take things slowly. Wen u r ready to take things slowly, u must think abt her at all times, care for her and show her that u love her. It dont have to do huge things to show her simple things help
2006-07-17 22:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a girl you like and get to know her and then ask if she wants to go out with you to like a movie or something.
2006-07-17 22:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by ::Hannah:: 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just be yourself and dont listen to what your friends have to say about the girl treat her like you love her dont act like another guy. listen to her when she talks to you,um...thats all good luck!
2006-07-17 22:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence in yourself but do not be a jerk. The girls will flock to you.
2006-07-17 22:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Eleanor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, be yourself, be dressy (not gayist, just a bit) and be a good kisser, lol.
2006-07-17 22:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Lavender Pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋