My boyfriend took a nap after he got home from work, when he woke up I asked him if he wanted a drink and he told me not to f'ing talk to him and that I never f'ing listen to him and he stormed out slammed the door and took off. I called his moms house and sure enough thats where he went, he doesn't want to talk to me andhe doesn't know if he's going to come home. What did I do?
2006-07-17 15:03:26 · 49 answers · asked by farmergyrl23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think he's worth crying over?
2006-07-17 15:06:52 · update #1
Honey I don't kno wat happened to him, but that is just horrible him making you feel like that. Try to think about if you did do something like this past weekend, then if you cannot recall anything try to let him cool down. If you think the relationship is worth it then try to figure out why he did that, if not then move on. Its okay to cry it helps with releasing emotions, don't keep your feelings bottled up though thats never a good thing, do watever you can to get over him and stay focused on something else!!!
2006-07-17 15:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did nothing wrong. Give him his space. He may be worth crying over but he's not worth chasing, not when he owes you an apology.
It is possible he's having an affair or using drugs. Both of these occupations rely heavily on the blame game. I'm sure there are other explanations but since there's no way of finding out right now, I suggest you focus on you.
What will make you feel good and keep you from worrying about whether Mr. Moody is coming home or not? Going out with friends? Watching a favorite movie? Taking a bubble bath? Shopping? Baking? Writing? Going for a walk?
In the long term, if things do not get better with him, it is in your power to see that they get better with out him.
Best of luck.
2006-07-17 15:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself over it. He is a jerk.Once man feels comfortable and the chase game is over he may become a total jerk.Now you know who you dealing with. Don't cry over him. I have a guyfriend who is a sweetheart but his work means too much to him and heis a jerk with his girls. When he is too busy he takes it out on his girlfriend. You also might've fought like few days ago and believe me guys can hold a grudge and be mad at you for that same thing for days.That's what my guyfriend did to his ex. My husband does the same thing to me many times,too.Men are weird.Instead of crying call up a girlfriend and go out somewhere for a quick drink or cup of coffee. Relax.He is the one that will regret in the end.
2006-07-17 15:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, we don't really have enough information.
There seems to be lots of "He's cheating on you" but no
other evidence than that he is doing something you can't
explain.
You don't know and maybe you never will. However, given
a little time, most people understand how their actions look
and try to mitigate them - maybe he will at least relent long
enough to tell you where that came from.
However, the fact that he reacted that way really makes
me wonder if he is as stable and communicative as you
need him to be.
Of course, we're seeing all of this from your point of view, not
his or a fly on the wall. Are you leaving out any important
details?
2006-07-17 15:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must know the answer to the question if the situation is as you describe. He just went off on you because you asked if he wanted a drink? What would you suggest to your friend whose bf did that to her? Let him back into your life if you like asking yourself, "What did I do?"
2006-07-17 15:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had a very compelling dream...? Or maybe you need to look deeper into your relationship. Did you have an argument the night before? Is there something that he's communicated to you that is bothering him? Did someone tell him something that he's afraid to confront you with? Like a rumor that you cheated on him or something? There's something missing...
2006-07-17 15:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he found out something that you might have done? I don't see why else he would walk out on you. Think back and see if there was something you were hiding from him. If that is the case and you are hiding things from him, you need to reevaluate how important that relationship is to you. There's no excuse for keeping things from one another. I wish you luck, and I hope things work out.
2006-07-17 15:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably bipolar personality problem, or a lot of stress from something. DO you ever listen to him?
Oh, I forgot, it could be him OR you. I had a girlfriend like that once. When she woke up and talked to me like that, and I left, she couldn't figure out what she did wrong. Freakin' looney.
2006-07-17 15:09:53 · answer #8 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he has some issues, if he is cheating on you or not remains to be seen,
wait until he calms down and simply ask him.
and go from there.
talking and listening is urgent in a relationship as well as understanding, so once you get an understanding you'll know what to do.
2006-07-17 15:14:32 · answer #9 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what you did do. But, it sounds to me like you need to make other living arrangements, that is if he pays part of the rent. Unless, you can afford it all yourself. I wouldn't worry about him too much. This might not sound helpful to you, but maybe you're better off without him. Take care.
2006-07-17 15:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋