My boyfriend told me that a girl that Had called a long timeago was just a friend and i found out through reliable sources that they had sex! before him and i met.....should i be mad.
2006-07-17 14:50:51 · 17 answers · asked by Shana H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think there no reason for u to get angry........what he did before knowing u is not your problem.......u couldn't have stop it or do anything abt it....If he is being sincere to u now that's the most important thing. The reason he didn't tell u abt the sex part is bcos he loves u n don wanna hurt your feeling. As long as things like this happen only in the past (B4 U MET HIM) but not now or in the future......u should be happy and thank the lord for getting such a wonderful bf.............com on relax.....have fun..
2006-07-17 15:03:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He didn't want to make you jealous. Or have you go all crazy on him. As long as he doesen't get all secretive or lies, he's probably just with you. Don't go all crazy about the issue, even a reliable source could be tainted by jealousy or whatnot. You can't be mad at him for something he did before you even met.
2006-07-17 14:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by ignoresociety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past is the past. If it happened before you met you can't be upset. You can be friends and have sex but never end up as anything more. Trust him!!
2006-07-17 14:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Janine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key sentence here "before him and I met"
in other words...Get over it or lose him..you'll push him away...
everyone has a past...I'm sure you do as well
get out of the past and live in the here and now.
2006-07-17 14:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it extremely is none of your enterprise and not your place to tell her something like that except you're very close acquaintances. it would purely injury her besides. Your bf advised you the place he stands on the situation so why might you sense the might desire to tell her besides? yet differently to look at it extremely is--perhaps he lied to you and he extremely does like her--perhaps extra effective than he's telling.
2016-12-14 09:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by brogen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, he probably didn't lay it down right and go locked away in the friend zone. No need to worry, she doesn't want your man anymore.
Desiree has an excellent point!!!!!!
listen to her. She is a wise sage.
2006-07-17 14:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... just because they had sex before he met you doesnt mean that he still thinks more of her... if he says she is just a friend then give him the benefit of the doubt... they probably are just friends now... and he is with you, isnt he?
2006-07-17 14:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Resasour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be mad. Who the hell wouldn't? But know that all guys are like that.
2006-07-17 14:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by ernie3232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may not be mad but i don't like lies myself.
2006-07-17 14:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! He told me that too. Are you the other girl?
2006-07-17 14:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋