why do all sub girls do the same?

Question

EVERY submissive girl or any girl into BDSM i've ever talked to at first shows as if shes the perfect girl, shes willing to travel to meet you and she doesnt care about money or anything. she likes you and acts like she doesnt want to lose you. and after a while she says "ive met someone new that im talking to" and she doesnt give a crap about you, says that she doesnt wanna come over anymore and then leaves? EVERYTIME. Why?? does ANYONE in this world take bdsm online dating seriously?

yes, im very controlling...

Answer 1

I don't think that holds true of all submissive women, but I can see what you mean about on-line dating. To be honest, I suspect that a great number of the women who have accounts on BDSM dating sites are as flaky as most men there are horny. It sounds like you are truly looking for a submissive to be dominant over, and it's silly stuff on the date sites that can make one question the whole wisdom of it all.

The better solution is to go out and meet people face-to-face. A club might be OK, but if you are looking for someone who is serious about forming a relationship, you need to get into the community and network.

The best place to start is by finding a munch group in your area. If you are in or near a sizable city, there should be one with a web presence that you can find via search engine. There should be an e-mail address of a contact person, you can provide you with specifics such as meeting times.

With the promise of the Internet, the realisation is that its created a lot of noise. There are some serious seekers on-line, but you have to wade through the dabblers to get to them. The easier route would be to go where dabblers fear to tread. I wish you the best of luck in this.

Answer 2

Maybe you are noy dominant enough subs want someone very controlling are you?

Answer 3

probably not dude!