Ok, my boyfriend used to be a typical male, looked at other girls, told me I should dye my hair, lose weight ect. Then we fought over it for a long time, made me cry lost of times and I even left him for a few days. That all happened like 3 months ago NOW he says that he was an idiot and that since I was his first real g/f he really didnt know what to do. He felt so bad he cried (he HATES to cry) he hurt himself, he even got me a $300 ring. Now he says that he HATES other girls and he loves me just the way I am. He said he dont even care to look at other girls, he wishes there were NO other girls around. what do you think? Has he really changed? Is it EVEN POSSIBLE for a male to NOT care to look at other women? We've been together for 9 months and wanna get married. I can see a visible change in personality, but Im nervous to belive that he NEVER looks at a "sexy" chick even if she had everything he wanted "before he changed" some please help! Is this guy for real?? This rides on us!!
2006-07-17 15:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by Trisha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'll probably look, but it's possible that he really loves you so much he just doesn't care about the others anymore. Or that before the possibility of being with them was one he wanted to entertain, but now he just looks but doesn't even want to entertain that idea of actually being with them. It seems like a good sign that he is not asking you to change yourself and that he really loves you the way you are.
2006-07-17 15:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he knows if its for real or not. Why not give him the benefit of the doubt? Maybe he realizes that he goofed up and wants forgiveness.
I've been married to my husband for 18 years and I know he's not going anywhere. I don't mind him looking - hell, there's lot of pretty girls to look at. I even point them out to him just in case he misses them. What is it going to hurt? I know where his heart is. I'm not the jealous kind. Jealousy will kill a relationship really quick. Let the boy enjoy doing what he wants to do.
2006-07-17 15:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ann Chovie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a go , he was most likely hanging out with some other dropkicks that treated there girlfriends the same way and realised that it was bad , don't know about not looking at anyone that's a bit hard ( there are just too many hotties out there) but i guess you don't look at any other guys do you??????
2006-07-17 15:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by diablo0470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that you are asking has me thinking you might not want to bet you married life on it. Hey don't rush, and if he still acts this way in a couple of years, it's probably true.
2006-07-17 15:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by Rockvillerich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although it's not possible that a guy will not look at a sexy lady, i believe he is very sincere by the way you described it
give him a chance
2006-07-17 15:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty codependent to me. Also you guys don't sound mature enough to be talking marriage.
2006-07-17 15:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either crazy or a real keeper!!
2006-07-17 15:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by s. life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ITS POSSIBLE...
2006-07-17 15:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋