when i am in a relationship, i give my man what he wants without being too needy or dependant on him, i take care of him every way i know how,i am there for the good and the bad times.i am not a fighter and i don't like drama, nor do i like to argue, and i can be submissive at times when i need to be. i love him unconditionally and i am very upfront, honest and open with, but he feels like he has to lie and cheat on me, why are men like this,is there something wrong with me; i am very attractive woman(or so they tell me), but he still feels like there is something more he needs, WHY?, so could you please tell me what is wrong with the men today, why can't they just be with the one they claim to love?, any advice is greatly appreciated.
2006-07-17 15:26:25 · 18 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys don't know when they have a true keeper. Like you, I'm also looking for one of those awesome relationships where I don't have to worry about much at all. The man you are looking for IS out there, you just have to look for him, as he'll be doing the same for you. (I've been told the same thing about the girl I'm looking for).
2006-07-17 15:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by horriblecomet8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm gonna tell you that men today. Woman are too submissive. I've never been the type of man to ever cheat on a woman. But some men when they get away with it once. They will continue to do it. I don't understand men like that either. But I used to be a little wild. OK maybe alot wild. But one day I was sitting there and I thought to myself. What really is love. I never really knew what love was. Then I finally had a brainstorm. That I would take myself away from the scene and learn. But what I am telling you. If you are doing all work in your relationship. He may say he loves you and there might be things he does love about you. But as far as truly love you. I really don,t believe he does. Because I know if I truly love someone. I will do anything in the world to show her I do.
But that is just me. Good luck.
2006-07-17 22:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you... and as a woman who fits the description of yourself almost exactly, I can honestly say that I've experienced the same issues and I can't explain it either. I've also got a lot of guy friends and the best answer I can get from them (and yes, we DO talk about it and I've never had a guy deny it) is that as much as they hate the "drama queens" and the constant roller coaster of emotional issues, they still find it exciting and almost addictive... go figure! Like you, I cannot imagine why they don't want the attractive woman by their side that only wants to be good to them and bring them happiness. I still say "Hold out!" cause surely those guys are out there too... and I know I wouldn't be happy any other way! Good luck...!
2006-07-17 22:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long term relationship for over 7yrs, I had no idea my ex was cheating on me. Apparently he had been doing this for a long time. I was just like you, did everything I could to try and make him happy. I'm not sure what men want anymore, all I know is you deserve better, someone who will love you as you love him. Maybe you should move on with your life, unless you can work it out and get passed what he has done. That's something you both need to sit down and discuss.
2006-07-17 22:35:49 · answer #4 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to run into bumps plenty of times before you find the right one. Love is a painful thing but when you find the right one, it's well worth it. So keep your head up, because I too know how it feels to be cheated on when I did nothing to deserve it. You have to learn to move on instead of mope about it. There's no use in being upset about it because there are bigger and better things out there, and the last thing you need to do is dwell on a thing of the past.
2006-07-17 22:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a $64Mil question. No one truly has that answer, even men. Other than they like being available to all women, which is the main thing whore mongers can own up to if they want to be real, it's a sex thing with them. It has nothing to do with love, are wanting to be with these females on a permanent basis, their egos are strung out on the wrong issues.
2006-07-17 22:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just like to lie and see how far they can go with it!!! They have lied for so long, that to them it is the truth. It just keeps going on, and on and on. Never to end. Only if you say good bye. This guy is probably so into himself, that no one will ever come before him. Take care.
2006-07-17 22:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the right for you. He may like you but he is not in love with you. You can get a better man, who loves you, respects you and appreciate you for who you are.
2006-07-17 22:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not like that, and it puzzles me that he is. It's good that you're the way you described yourself. will he talk to you about this matter? Maybe you should leave him for a better man, who wants a submissive gf, like yourself.
2006-07-17 22:31:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna tell something ,Guys today is sooo bad but not all of them it's depend on ur Choose to ( Bad & Good ) men
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2006-07-17 22:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by $--SOLOM--$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋