Singles & Dating - 12 July 2006

well basicly me and this guy were friends when we were younger. we didn't see each other for 5 years. he sent me a letter i though it was sweet and contacted him. when i meet him i found he wasn't my type. so i talk to him for a month out of being nice and then i sent him an email saying i don't think we should be freands cause we wouldn't make good friends. well he was just like ok and i though i would have to deal with him buging me again. i guess i was wroung. he sent me anouther email asking if i was ready to tlak to him. i had enough probelms with guy friends thins year as it is so i realy didn't need or want anouther one. i just told him i have alot going on and i don't need or want a guy friend. but now i am worryed that he is going to keep bugging me. so if this dosen't work do any of u have idea on what i can say online that will get him to stop bugging me. i don't go to the same school as him and we live in different areas so he is easy to avoid in person.

2006-07-12 03:34:39 · 5 answers · asked by punk girl 4

Anybody got any advice? =\ I'm really scared. I know God will watch over me but..still.

2006-07-12 03:34:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfren n me hav been 2gether for 3 yrs now.i came ovr to uk bcoz of him(we both are frm another country n he came ovr 2 the uk for his studies).all along he was nice to me bt i was the one 2 go an extra mile 2 make our relationship work.now he has a full tym job...i feel good 4 him bt i feel really lonely n he doesn't seem to care.he comes over from work..(at that tym im at the office)..finds the food is ready n by the tym i come over he jus says a word or two n den we sleep..coz he is so tired.this is gettin on 2 me..and i jus cant bear it anymore..so many times i hav tried to break up wid him bt he in sum way or the other tries to convince me.i love him alooot...

2006-07-12 03:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by sybyl t 1

I'm a 23 year old guy, and I've never had sex before. Is this normal? Obviously there's the common stereotype that college guys are playas (see American Pie), but I haven't had sex yet because I don't think I've found the one, and I don't just fool around. Am I normal???

2006-07-12 03:31:07 · 16 answers · asked by James G 1

CLOSE,talking every day for hours,we were very warm to each other and stuff but the problem was that i couldnt manage to show him my pic( i really couldnt manage)thou i've seen his. first he wanted to stop all the relationship coz of that(i would do the same coz its just not right that u dont know how the other person looks)and he did so.. we didnt talk for 2-3 days and then i finally sent him my pics and we talked again, he said he doesnt like me (it was kinda a surprise to me coz other people think im pretty) and he said there was no point in continuing our relationship,so we said bye to each other and after that we just talked very coldly, not like we used to and now we dont talk at all..i was very depressed at first , cried too much and im not still healed , i get depressed coz of what happened, i dont know how to forget him and i dont understand how could he forget me so soon coz i know he was thinking about me and liked me as a person,do u think he's a jerk? please help me

2006-07-12 03:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by wanderer 1

2006-07-12 03:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 03:28:58 · 49 answers · asked by devil at work 2

2006-07-12 03:28:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

One day a guy dies and finds himself in hell As he is
wallowing in despair, he has his first meeting with
the devil...

Satan: Why so glum?

Guy: What do you think? I'm in hell!

Satan: Hell's not so bad. We actually have a lot of
fun down here. You a drinking man?

Guy: Sure, I love to drink.

Satan: Well you're gonna love Mondays then. On
Mondays that's all we do is drink. Whiskey,
tequila, Guinness, wine coolers, Tab
and fresca. We drink till we throw up
and then we drink some
more! And you don't have to worry about getting a
hangover, because you're dead anyway.

Guy: Gee, that sounds great!

Satan: You a smoker?
Guy: You better believe it!
Satan: All right! You're gonna love Tuesdays. We get
the finest cigars from all over the world and smoke our lungs out.
If you get cancer - no biggie, you're already dead, remember?

Guy: Wow... that's awesome!
Satan: I bet you like to gamble.
Guy: Why yes, as a matter of fact I do.

Satan: Cause Wednesdays you can gamble all you want.
Craps, Blackjack Roulette, Poker, Lots, whatever. If you go
bankrupt...it doesn't matter you're dead anyhow.

Guy: Cool!

Satan: What about Drugs?

Guy: Are you kidding? Love drugs! You don't mean...

Satan: That's right! Thursday is drug day. Help
yourself to a great big bowl of crack,
or smack. Smoke a doobie the size of a
submarine. You can do all the drugs you
want. You're dead, who cares.

Guy: WOW! I never realized Hell was such a cool
place!

Satan: You gay?
Guy: No...

Satan: Ooooh, Fridays are gonna be tough.

2006-07-12 03:25:43 · 21 answers · asked by Karen 6

I told my boyfriend today that I am feeling emotionally drained by our relationship. I spend all my time making him happy and comfortable and think about my wants and needs last if at all. I want to change our relationship so that I am more satisfied. I want to do some of the things I like to do instead of always doing things he likes (and I'm not talking about sex, just regular activities). He took this very badly. He thought I was trying to break up with him. I love him and don't want to leave him, but I want to change how we spend our time and how we divide up the housework. What is a good way to tell him this so he doesn't automatically think I want to leave him?

2006-07-12 03:16:34 · 16 answers · asked by Amaunette 2

I'm 30 and currently dating a lovely gorgeous man who's 57 and I've never been happier in a relationship like this before. I know he's too old for me but is it wrong and anyones business? We enjoy each others company, have great conversations in and out of the bedroom. I've dated guys my age or a year or 2 older than me in the past but none of them compares this. If its not wrong then why do we get looks from others when we're out having dinner as a couple its not like we're all over each other???? Are they just jealous?

2006-07-12 03:15:49 · 51 answers · asked by Yoruba 3

To my ex-husband: You tore my heart out. You stole my happiness. You stole my security. You stole my piece of mind. You desroyed everything I believed in. You destroyed our family. You have caused pain to me, our children, my family, and everyone who cares about us. You had NO RIGHT to treat me like that. Your daughters didn't deserve an absent father. They deserve better and so did I. I have news for you, your new life is not as great as you thought. You are lonely, I saw your ads. You deserve every bad thing that comes your way. You earned your loneliness. I am now happy. I have a man who loves me and he loves your girls. I am at peace. You can NOT have the part of me that loves and trusts. I have taken that back, it was not yours to take. You will probably die alone and afraid because you screwed over everyone in your life who has ever given a damn about you. I hope it was all worth it. You are nothing to me or your children. Enjoy your internet life, I hope it was worth it.

2006-07-12 03:14:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 03:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when u break up with someone and that its going to end up being a blessing in disguise. but u cant tell me that every break up is suppose to happen and that those 2 people should never get back together? every relationship is different right?

2006-07-12 03:13:10 · 1 answers · asked by MsNic 4

Like when you first start dating them, is it just their way of figuring out if you will respond to their thoughts of marrying you? Or is it because they actually want to marry you?

2006-07-12 03:12:45 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

I think i May be breaking a new record!!

2006-07-12 03:11:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 03:07:21 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 03:06:36 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 03:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by roses 2

We carpool together (his idea) so he feels that it is easier for him to stay here during the work week. His reason for not moving in is that he isn't ready for a serious relationship. But, he seriously is ready to eat, sleep, surf the net, take a shower and do his laundry here!

2006-07-12 02:53:40 · 21 answers · asked by whoanelly 3

2006-07-12 02:53:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seems as if most all women are attracted to taller men. I am only 5'9", very discouraging - guess I could always move to Japan.

2006-07-12 02:53:14 · 14 answers · asked by brockoli6857 2

2006-07-12 02:50:19 · 45 answers · asked by nikki 2

I have a year today with my boyfriend and sometimes i wonder if he really cares about me. Maybe its because im very insecure and probably always have been and listen to other people when they tell me stuff about him. I dont know.

2006-07-12 02:48:46 · 25 answers · asked by fairy 1

2006-07-12 02:42:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with this guy for two years and up until November of 2005 we were the happiest couple you have ever seen!!! And I mean that. Then one morning I woke up and had these worries about not loving him and worries about what if we break up or what if we never get married and I have had them ever since then which now has been 8 months and I love him, I really do. I think it is depression because I do not want to break up with him I want to be with him forever but it's like something tell's me to worry about stuff like that! My hormones drive me crazy n e way so my mom thinks that is what is wrong with me cause she said if I did not love him I would have done leaft him by now, but I just can't when I think about leaving him I cry and cry and cry!!!!
What can I do to make eveything good again???

2006-07-12 02:40:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-12 02:40:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, what is the fastest way?

2006-07-12 02:38:12 · 9 answers · asked by Ava 2

2006-07-12 02:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by chaopred 3

This is more of a self-reflective question that doesn't really need to be answered, but a Best Answer will be chosen from those who do. It is a question for those who are unhappy in their love relationship. I see many questions in this forum where people ask what they should do about their loved one that doesn't treat them right, and it is my belief that one shouldn't be with someone who holds a person back with negativity. It really is that simple. But, I didn't get to this understanding before being in a few relationships that were miserably doomed. So, I'm not here to judge anyone, but just to clarify that love shouldn't be that difficult.

2006-07-12 02:36:51 · 3 answers · asked by T Time 6