CLOSE,talking every day for hours,we were very warm to each other and stuff but the problem was that i couldnt manage to show him my pic( i really couldnt manage)thou i've seen his. first he wanted to stop all the relationship coz of that(i would do the same coz its just not right that u dont know how the other person looks)and he did so.. we didnt talk for 2-3 days and then i finally sent him my pics and we talked again, he said he doesnt like me (it was kinda a surprise to me coz other people think im pretty) and he said there was no point in continuing our relationship,so we said bye to each other and after that we just talked very coldly, not like we used to and now we dont talk at all..i was very depressed at first , cried too much and im not still healed , i get depressed coz of what happened, i dont know how to forget him and i dont understand how could he forget me so soon coz i know he was thinking about me and liked me as a person,do u think he's a jerk? please help me
2006-07-12 03:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by wanderer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes sounds like a jerk.. prob a guy just criusing looking for someone to send him obsene pics of themself. Guy can be teh sweetest person in the world if it gets him what he wants... but as soon as he does not want it anymore he can become the biggest a#&hole in the world. Sound like this guy only cared for what you looked like, the long talks did not mean anything.
Do give it another though, delete him off any lists you have - email, msn, icq, yahoo whatever. Delete all you conversations with him and any emails you have from him. If he contacts you block him.
Cuting him out of you life completely is the best way to get over him. there are lots of people out there on the some of them can be jerks but some are nice. Dont give him another thought.
2006-07-12 03:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by smartypantsmbcanada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given the way you've spelled and the maturity level of what you've written here, I'm going to guess you're pretty young. Stop chatting with strangers on the internet. There are a lot of perverts out there, and you are young and vulnerable.
If you've never met him, your "relationship" with him was no more of a "relationship" than that which you would have with the author of your favorite book simply by virtue of having read it.
If he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. It's that simple. Stop acting like a little girl who is pouting because she didn't get what she wanted, and take a deep breath and count your blessings. A guy who can spend hours chatting with someone every day for eight months online doesn't have much going for him. Why isn't he at work? Why isn't he at school? For that matter, why do you have so much free time? Go out with your real, human friends that you know personally, and stop mooning over a two-dimensional non-relationship. And STOP SEEKING INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH STRANGERS ON THE INTERNET!
2006-07-12 03:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was talking to you for the wrong reasons! Dont let someone you have never even met bring you down. Spend a few days away from the computer and more time with some friends. After a few days you'll realize you can get along just fine without talking to that guy.
2006-07-12 03:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by doc_djj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can find the person for you on the Internet and enjoy the journey. Don't give up or feel down. Looks have nothing to do with it. "Beauty and the Beast" is really a true story, only the names have been changed to protect the innocent. Use your best language skills, post more pictures, and let the beauty within show. Care about others and they will care about you. I look for those who are smart, healthy, and like the same things I like. Turn-offs are: smoking, bad language, pets, and divorced people. Stay in the game!
2006-07-12 03:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Pey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarly a Jerk, even if you are very pretty he might have different taste... you see its not fun to hear it but thats just how he feels would you prefer that he had lied to you ? I think you better try to forget him... if you keep wondering so much about him youll never forget him. dont forget internet is really tricky you never know whos on the other side of the computer and some are really heartless
I hope youll get over him... as he surely do not deserve you at all.... be proud of yourself and keep going - you will find the one for you... but be very careful with internet dont give your heart too quick try to be cautious with them ok
Good luck
2006-07-12 03:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk - no doubt. You deserve someone who respects you and he can't even do that on a friend level. I can' t believe he could be so cold and people like this, be it in cyberspace or in reality, deserve none of your time.
If you want to forget about him, I mean really forget, then I advise you lay off the chats for a while and start hanging out with the guys from school/work.
2006-07-12 03:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think he is. he probably was never interested in u. he was looking for adventure, frankly having an on line relationship or a thing with someone is suicidal because he could be emailing u pictures of other people u never know. anyway don't sweat it girl u r beautiful and don't let anybody tell u that u r not. i know it's hard for u to forget him after all these months but believe in ur self and keep ur head up somewhere someday u will meet someone else. good luck
2006-07-12 03:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be in a relationship, you have to be into the person emotionally, mentally, and physically. If all three aren't there (in at least some capacity), then it isn't going to work.
I don't think he is a jerk, but perhaps he should have expressed himself better. Do not put too much weight into his opinion. At this point, you have to look inside yourself and realize how good a person you are. Your opinion matters most as people see what you project.
2006-07-12 03:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Sean/Guy Wiley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be a jerk. Depends on his age. Young people look for the looks while the older group looks at the person and who they are. There could be alot of reason but I would say he didnt like the way you looked. Sorry to hear about that. You will find someone that will care about you for you someday. Just dont push it and it will happen.
2006-07-12 03:35:43 · answer #9 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would help us answerers if questions like yours came with your age and that of your bf/gf. But I'll go out on a limb and assume that you are in your mid teens.
I further suspect that yours is a case of online puppy love. There's another issue at work here, however. Others think you're pretty. Who are they? Other guyfriends, your girlfriends, your siblings, your aunt Martha?
If you are in your mid-teens, you're still finding yourself and solidifying your own identity, including your self-image. You're still undecided on whether you like yourself, your body, your face, your actions...or not. If you can relate to what I'm saying here, then you have no business getting into a romantic relationship, online or otherwise, until you find yourself first. By "finding" I mean learn about yourself and accept yourself just like you are (Mr. Rogers, where are you when we need you the most??)
Unless you --again-- find yourself and be happy with yourself, your self-esteem (the whole notion of whether you are likable and lovable) will be at the mercy of someone else's opinion...including that of those who think you are pretty and those who stop talking to you because they don't like your face.
2006-07-12 03:40:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋