my boyfren n me hav been 2gether for 3 yrs now.i came ovr to uk bcoz of him(we both are frm another country n he came ovr 2 the uk for his studies).all along he was nice to me bt i was the one 2 go an extra mile 2 make our relationship work.now he has a full tym job...i feel good 4 him bt i feel really lonely n he doesn't seem to care.he comes over from work..(at that tym im at the office)..finds the food is ready n by the tym i come over he jus says a word or two n den we sleep..coz he is so tired.this is gettin on 2 me..and i jus cant bear it anymore..so many times i hav tried to break up wid him bt he in sum way or the other tries to convince me.i love him alooot...
2006-07-12 03:32:42 · 10 answers · asked by sybyl t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he convinces you that you love him, maybe you do?
Does he ever try to convince you that he loves you?
Do you feel used?
I don't quite understand the situation.
At least he isn't cheating on you, be happy for that. Alot of women have to go through that and it isn't a good experience.
2006-07-12 03:46:22 · answer #1 · answered by roses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how u feel bcause i am going through a silmilar experiece. My boyfriend spends most of the time away from home bcause he is in the military. However, when he gets to come home we don't spend a whole lot of time together. I don't really have an answer for u bcause like i already told u, i am kind of on the same page. Nevertheless, i want u to know that there will always b someone out there that will love u more (that goes for me too...let me know if u get interesting answers that will help me too...bye and good luck
2006-07-12 11:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by College Girl! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to tell him your off and leaving because of his unreasonable behaviour,he,ll do two things either change his ways or he wont,i think he taking you for granted and no one should do that in a relationship,now this other guy how does feel about you?i,d find out first and see how it is before you leap frog to him.if he likes u etc give it a go and ditch this b/friend you have now.you,ll probably be treated a lot better than u are now.
2006-07-12 10:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by irlamboyo1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, instead of going for the new guy you could learn to write in English?
2006-07-12 10:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by lifes_cinders 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isnt willing to make an effort and can see that his lack of attention is causing you distress and/or upsetting you, then you should tell him where to go and start enjoying your life without him !
2006-07-12 10:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't bear it anymore, why are you still with him and about this other guy l don't think its the right move yet, have you spoken to him about it, maybe he has got his own gal already just enjoy being single if you decide to live your B/F
2006-07-12 10:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the old one is giving you problems, then try the new guy.
2006-07-12 10:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being together for years is not a criteria for being happy or being together forever!!! if you are not happy and your man is not happy, then give it a rest and see what happens!!!
2006-07-12 10:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by cassandra b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you loved him alot you wouldn't think u were in love with someone else would u
2006-07-12 10:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by aaaa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him stay with him, if you dont love him break up with him.
2006-07-12 10:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋