Other - Family & Relationships - 14 September 2007

My sex life has changed dramatically since my daughter was born last year. How can I get things spicy agian. We use to do it all the time, now I am lucky if we do it once a week. I am afraid he is not as attracted to me since I had the baby!!

2007-09-14 07:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by bjeshoemaker 1

My grandfather doesn't have much longer to live and my grandmother is having a hard time. I find it difficult to be around her when she's depressed even though I love her. See, I'm vulnerable so it's hard to be around depressing people and things. But people say you should be there for your family when their loved one is dying but that'll be hard for me if she just gets depressed and talk about nothing but depressing things. That's all she talks about these days. I don't know if I should get her mind off her husband's illness by playing card games with her or what. Should I go see her, get her mind off things or just leave her alone for a while? I can't deal with grieving or seeing people who are depressed. Not that I'm unsympathetic but it's hard for me to be that way. I just feel very uncomfortable around people who talk about depressing things and who are really depressed. I got through depression myself and hate to be around it again.

2007-09-14 06:54:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just get married tow months a go. we moved to my mother in laws 3bed rooms apartment... for a while until we find our own place I am 22 and my husband is 24... as a new married couple we have sex a lot. and our room is next to my mother in law room. one night was about 4 am in the morning after me and my husband finish making love. I when out side to go to the bathroom and I notice her bedroom light was on. the next morning my husband say the that his mom can hear us clearing when we have sex. and its disturbing her. I told my husband we need to move out. or not to have sex. at all. I don't know whats wrong with her she always trying to keep my husband wake late until I go to sleep. I think she doesn't want him to have sex with me I mean whats up with that>??!!!!the problem she doesn't speak English so she doesn't talk to me at all. I don't to have sex . but my husband want to have sex all the time . I fell embarrassed?!!

2007-09-14 05:20:37 · 29 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1

I watch this kid for $50 a week for 20 hrs. her parents started bailing on my @ the last minute, so i told them from then on they would have to pay the the full 50 if i didn't get 48 hrs notice. well me & my kids r sick this wk. i told them we were sick on sunday & they still brought her on monday. then wednesday, they called me n the am & told me that cuz we were still sick & dad wasn't working there was no need 2 expose the kid 2 us being sick. they made it sound like they were only not bringing her cuz we were sick. even though they were here monday. so my Q is, should I charge them the full $50 or was it my fault they missed a day cuz i was sick so i shouldn't charge them for that day even though they brought her monday?

2007-09-14 02:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by dkchick123 2

I know several cases where a man loves a woman and she loves him too but cannot be together. She can't stop sending texts or e-mails just to keep in touch. He always answers but never is the one who initiates it. She can't stop herself from contacting him but he can. Are men stronger or more capable of controling their feelings than women?

2007-09-14 02:52:34 · 6 answers · asked by sara181204 1

embarrass my daughter as it's her birthday today and she's having friends for a sleepover before going karting in the morning

Should I act a numpty and get all her old photos out and wear bad clothes or just be 'normal'?

2007-09-14 02:26:27 · 40 answers · asked by pirate_princess 7

I don't want another failed relationship. I want to work hard to make this one work. I don't want to be a person that gets married 3-4 times. I want one woman in my life and that is her. The relationship isn't the same but I want it to be healthy again. She seems to be making an effort to see and spend time with me but its still not the same. help me

2007-09-14 01:17:48 · 4 answers · asked by micha_gil 1

I am 32 years old and I divorced my wife in 2005. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for the past 2 years. Over the past 6-8 months our relationship has hit rock bottom. There has been some dishonesty and trust issues dealing with our relationship. No cheating that I am aware of but a lot of trust issues. We lived together we lived together for seven months then she decided she wanted to get her own place because of my instability. I admit I haven't been stable for the past 2 years. I have moved 5 times over the past 2 years. Everytime my lease end I move. Now that is one of the major problems. I need stability. She has lost trust in me and no longer have passion for me. She says she loves me and want to work on this relationship but I haven't been intimate with her for 3 weeks now. I'm not talking about just sex but everything else that comes with a relationship. I miss her so much and I am so in love with her. What do I do? Stability is my priority right now.

2007-09-14 01:14:37 · 5 answers · asked by micha_gil 1

We heard the news today of a couple faced with this news. The wife had cancer and without treatment would die, she than fell pregnant and decided to stop treatment to save her unborn child, thus sacrificing herself and their marriage on the chance her "unborn" would be saved. But what about any other children ? Would it be better to continue treatment and save the marriage and maybe have IFV later if need be ? Brave, but ...

2007-09-14 01:02:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok. there are two cars in the dark, one has tinted windows and the other dont. Both have their dome lights on. I know the person in the tinted car can see the person in the other car, but can the other person see them?

2007-09-14 00:52:29 · 4 answers · asked by lida 2

Ok, I have been away from home for several months. I have missed my wonderful wife. We live in Las Vegas. We have seen several of the shows - including her favorite, Toni Braxton. Also - O, Zumanity, KA, La Reve and Celine.

I would like to do something special - like maybe the new show - Love - but I also wanted to treat her to the day at a spa and us have a nice night at the hotel.

My dilemma - Love is at a hotel with no spa. I am thinking we could do another show at another hotel with a spa - but the show might not be as good. Or we could do just a night at a hotel/spa and maybe some shopping

Ladies (and guys if you want to answer) - what sounds good?

2007-09-14 00:39:41 · 1 answers · asked by vegasrob89118 6