My sex life has changed dramatically since my daughter was born last year. How can I get things spicy agian. We use to do it all the time, now I am lucky if we do it once a week. I am afraid he is not as attracted to me since I had the baby!!
2007-09-14 07:02:25 · 7 answers · asked by bjeshoemaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am so sorry to tell you this but it is all downhill from here. You have started on the road to platonic marriage.
2007-09-14 07:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
First off, "Drew G" doesn't know his butt from a hole in the ground!
Now, I have been married 15 year and in that time we have had 4 kids (I know, it would have been cheaper to get cable t.v. instead LOL). Your husband might just be getting bored with the routine. Try surprising him in the shower. Cook breakfast in a tee shirt and no panties. Let him know that there are other places in the world you two can do it other then the bedroom. That I promise will light a fire in him.
Good Luck and (I've always wanted to say this) I really hope you get laid!
2007-09-14 07:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Bear~~~ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you work out? One, it will help with your body and stamina, 2 it will also help with the extra energy you have. I say you try to surprise him with some phone sex, in the middle of the day or at sometime he's not expecting it...or callhim at him and ask him for a quickie. Or when you wake up in the morning, just roll over and start molesting him...he won't be able to say no after that! Besides, sex in the AM is a total booster!
2007-09-14 07:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by karamell08 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate! I'm sure he has sexual fantasies in his head---as I know YOU have them too. Hell, we all do--which is merely a part of the human condition.
1) Open up communication lines: Ask hubby what his fantasies are. You'll likely find him quite receptive to telling you them. You might want to take the lead here, and tell him yours---which may pleasantly surprise and delight him.
2) Listen with open objectivity; do NOT become defensive and judge mental. We tend to block ourselves from things we might find fun to try---at least once, anyways.
3) Realize there's nothing wrong w/ trying something once. You'll live from the experience either way.....and might find something about each other you didn't before know existed.
2007-09-14 07:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can start by doing kegal excesses to tighten you muscles down there so you can be tight if you dont know kegal excesses look them up online. and spice things up with toys and oils and all that good stuff you can find at a sex shop
2007-09-14 08:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by fame_chico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor who u r ! i just have feel like you
so i avoid u to talk to ur doctor
or ur husband you can find
a good ideas
togetor...
2007-09-14 07:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by koutchanagali a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he give u the indication he is not interested? i would talk to him and let him know how u feel remember COMMUNICATION
we can't read each others mind.
2007-09-14 07:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋