I have already asked about my ex here once and got some very good detailed replies. I was unfaithful and he found out and left me (not right away though, took him a while). 5 months later, we are still spending time together, I find it extremely painful and keep trying to make him come back. He keeps saying he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me because he does not love me. However, we have made love several times since the break up, a couple of times while he was drunk (he's a lovely drunk) and several times sober. When we do it, it feels like he's in love with me... he kisses and touches me only like a man in love would... like he used to when we were a couple. Once sex is over, he clams up again and denies any emotional attachment, only admits that he "cares" about me but wants us to "just be friends"... When I ask what kind of "just friends" make love, he says nothing. What should I do? Should I hang around and wait for him to one day change his mind and fall for me again?
2007-03-22
02:26:52
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