Hi i'm 20 an i started seeing (not as in just sex) this girl last october and it continued till beginning of January then we stopped and went seperate ways. We've both just split up with people, and now these few weeks we've started seeing eachother again. When stopped seeing eachother i went and applied for the navy and im now leaving on the 27th May, and ive told her and she said she doesn't know if she could handle me being away. She said she doesn't want me to ruin my chances from getting in the Navy y staying with her. She wants to be with me but doesn't know what to do. I'm like considering to not go into the Navy and to be with her. I actually love her to which makes it worse!. Please can you help me Be very greatful
2007-03-22 00:10:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Trust me dude. If you join the military you will forget all about this girl. You will up to your knees in poon-tang.
2007-03-22 00:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I started seeing a girl in Feb 99 and joined the royal navy in oct 99 i serve on submarines and i'm away out of human contact for 3 months of the year. Were due to get married in Aug. Navy is a great life make great friends and where ever you go your girlfriend can go also. When abroad you sometimes have the ability to fly your loved ones out to see you depending how long your ashore for. If you both love each other the Royal Navy can better both of your lives. I make incredible money and i'm only 23 i've seen more of the world in the last 7 years than most people see in a lifetime and the deciding fact is that my future wife has been there from the start and has supported my career throughout. We write letters/ phone calls / web cam and i get home most weekends. Join the Navy be the best and i'm sure she'll stick by you.
2007-03-22 07:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that if the two of you are meant for each other you will be together. Go to the navy and get a stable life. Love knows no boundaries. Some married couples that exist where involved in long distance relationships, and they made it. If you love this girl, I'm sure you like to be able to take care of her. So go ahead and join the navy and you will take it from there. You are still young and this might not be your Miss Right. What will happen if you discover this later on, yet you will have not gone to the navy? I think you will be hurt, devastated. Build your life, you have got a future ahead of you. Anyway, the final decision lays with you. So, please take your time before making any concrete decision. Your future depends on the decisions that you make.
2007-03-22 07:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kache 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope someone can shed some light on whether or not you can un-enlist after you signed up already.
As for the girl, you've known her for an extremely short amount of time. You've already been broken up too. Whatever that caused the initial breakup will become an issue again. I just don't see this as love. Infatuation maybe, but not love.
Military life is very hard anyway. I don't think you should add more pressure to your life or to hers at such a young age. Even if you married her you would be separated for a good deal of time.
Try the letter writing and phone calls. If it's meant to be and this is love - here's your chance to put it to the test. Leave, stay in touch, and hopefully it will all work out.
2007-03-22 07:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are really young and you need a long term plan. If you don't go to the Navy, what will you do to develop a skill, trade, or career? Vocational school? College? If you go to the Navy, you will learn a certain amount of skills and be more employable when done (hopefully, you won't end up in Iraq). Then, you can think about a serious relationship that may even lead to marriage and babies.
2007-03-22 07:15:45 · answer #5 · answered by just browsin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for your career, you have not got enough of a basis of a relationship to give it up, if your feelings for each other are strong enough it will stand the test that the distance will give, you will have a fantastic life in the navy and as i say you can have both, but dont give it up for a girl you really havent known for that long.
2007-03-22 07:16:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a girl is just a girl but the navy is a job.what do you want to be poor with a that girl or have a nice house with a better girl?
2007-03-22 07:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by alien_domination 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in the navy you can sail the seven seas
2007-03-22 07:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋