he gets jealous when i hang around with my friends because there is boys there. but he only gets jealous about some of them the others he likes. he has met all of my friends.
2007-03-22 00:14:31 · 13 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you should show your boyfriend some respect and not hang around with dudes. I'm not saying leave them alone, just use some common sense. I'm sure if he had a whole bunch of chicks, you wouldn't be happy.
2007-03-22 00:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like any other person getting jealous. There are other ´potential´ suiters out there. Just like if he started hanging with the cheerleading team (just friends) lol, you already know how you´LL feel. Anyway, look at it as if you were jealous. What would calm your jealousies down. I know for me, if I got some downstairs lovin´, and then she told me, that she loves me and there is NOBODY else, baby...my jealousy meter might go back to the meter...(some guys, we do that for our women when they get jealous, and it seems to work) meaning, show him some love, and he´ll calm down. Some of the guys you hang out with he knows more, and some he´s still worried about obviously. So once you get him calmed down to ALL of your friends, he will not be so jealous. Good luck! Love and Respect.
P.S. For all the women and men who said dump him, oh ok. And I suppose he should dump her, if she get´s jealous too. Oh, and for the girl who said that men are worse than ladies about jealousy,...oh, no, no, no, no that´s not true. Just imagine your husband or bf or lover (whatever) started hanging out with a bunch of pretty women that laughed at all the jokes that you no longer laugh at. Just imagine if these women were on the touchy-feely-side. Come on now, in ALL sincerity, the woman would be jealous too. And there is NOTHING wrong with jealousy (as long as it´s in healthy non binucular levels). So, knowing that this IS a touchy subject, because men have a bad track record with jealousy, not many people can answer realistically or honestly. You shouldn´t dump him until you realize that there is NO other way to get through. But some people would rather just write something off, write a check, and bounce...men AND women alike. Ta...ta.
2007-03-22 00:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women can be jealous,that is why they call it the green monster! It can and will destroy your relationship if you are not careful.it is o.k. to feel a little jealousy,but if it gets out of hand that means the person you are with is too insecure,and so you should move on without him.
2007-03-22 00:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by Student 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He will never get over being Jealous, if you truly love him you can deal with this. Have you talked to him about? Just as long he is not ABUSIVE towards you. Good Luck
2007-03-22 07:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by beaner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, jealous men are worse than jealous women.
2007-03-22 00:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
a man who is jealous makes for a bad relationship, at first u may be flattered by it, but after awhile u will really get sick of this kind of behavior, he has low self worth, and seems to be controlling. u need to confront him about this kind of behavior, and if he doesn't make some changes u need to get out of this relationship.
2007-03-22 00:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gods jealous bfs are annoying. He should trust you.
2007-03-22 02:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by juliavril7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a very unbecoming trait that is a sign of low self esteem. It generally is accompanied by controlling behavior and abuse. I would ask myself if he is worth that risk.
2007-03-22 00:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is normal, as long as he does not accuse you of doing anything wrong. If he does, time to set him straight before he makes your life misrable.
2007-03-22 00:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't he trust you? Not to mention that your not his property nor his slave. I would ask him why he doesn't trust you. And then followed by a comment about possibly being somewhat mature about relationships.
2007-03-22 00:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋