2007-03-22 01:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by rajesh p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear,
You are married now. The age is not mentioned. It's fine. You have done the right thing. Remove any guilt from the mind. Be prepared to face what ever comes now. Be a strong man.
In my openion, you must declare it to your and her parents. Let them decide as to acomodate her in your family or not. It should not happen as they are now aware and one day they might say that, we did not know that you are married. We would have accepted her long before had you both come to us and declared the same. Don't take chances. Go ahead and tell them. Rest is their botheration. Even law is in your side provided you are for that age.
But knock the doors of your parents and I am sure they will welcome you. If they don't, take care of her a syou are the one for whom she has left her home and possibly everything on the earth. It would be only you to support her emotionaly.
Best of luck. Pl. feel free if you need further help. The God is with you.
May God shower all the heavenly flowers on newly weded couple.
Warm regards
2007-03-22 01:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by dil se 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had the guts to marry her have the guts to face the world don't be a coward, initially they will feel bad and cheated but after a while they will accept, rather than the world going and creating confusion to your parents and hurting them its better you open out and fight it out for what they did for you in life from giving a space to come to this life to today what you are they have been with you so little shouting from their side should not make you feel bad, take their rude words with a sportive manner and just confess them what you have done with an apology, initially they might negate but they know ultimately they have no choice but to accept.
2007-03-22 09:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by rema e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day, you surely will have to reveal it to your family. Marrying a girl is one's own freedom. If family won't accept it, that's an unhappy thing. But it is your life and you have to decide it. I think you should reveal it as soon as you can and be prepared for the consequences. I wish your family will accept your girl.
2007-03-22 09:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Intensive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man just tell ur family in the end they will hav to accept
2007-03-22 08:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by chin2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-22 14:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point hiding such things. Remove the lid off and let it explode. But, there will not be any explosion. Things will settle down.
2007-03-22 08:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there something seriously wrong with her that only you don't see? If you love her, don't hide her; that's not love. When I realized my family didn't like my husband, I knew he was the man for me.
2007-03-22 08:45:19 · answer #7 · answered by DeadHelen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your family will have to accept it or you will have to end contact with them. You have to stand by your wife and speak up for her. Good luck.
2007-03-22 08:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to tell them sometime. Might as well get it over with. Make sure you stand strong with your wife if it gets ugly. If you don't she will feel betrayed.
2007-03-22 10:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must hav thought b4 u married.well past is past.face the problem and tell ur parents
2007-03-22 08:55:16 · answer #10 · answered by *♥SwEeTy♥* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋