Other - Family & Relationships - 2 March 2007

I just found out my grandmother passed away last weekend. No one in my family bothered to call me and tell me, and now I will miss the funeral. When I asked, "Well, what is Grandpa going to do now?" imagine my SHOCK and HORROR to find out that my grandfather died 4 MONTHS AGO and NO ONE told me! I am going through so many feelings, including anger with my family for not telling me about all this until it's too late... please, any advice for this ridiculous situation would be most appreciated. I am at a loss as to where to turn, how to feel... I just feel blank.

2007-03-02 05:40:00 · 8 answers · asked by Liz F 2

I have a sister who recently got married to her boyfriend of 3 years (they are both 24). They were both overweight, to the extent that my sister had gastrointestinal bypass surgery months ago to control the weight. Now, she is slimmed down, working at a local bar, and living an entirely new life than the one she chose with her husband. It has gotten so bad that she hasn't shown up at home for the past week (they have been married 4 months). This could be a situation that involves drugs, alcohol, and adultery.

How do I approach her with help? What can I say, what are some key words that I can use that put all the issues together to help her understand what she is doing to her husband, herself, her family? If she wants to lead a different life, now that she is a different person, so be it. I want to help her in whatever way I can, I just don't want her to shut me out, keep me from helping her. The rest of the family has basically shut her out. I look forward to your comments.

2007-03-02 05:38:02 · 9 answers · asked by r_canton 3

I want to know who my ancestors are. What website should I go to?

2007-03-02 05:32:45 · 8 answers · asked by Music Girl 1

or is it just let's hurry up and untie me? I could stay tied up for some time without complaining, even if left alone for a bit, does anyone else enjoy that?

2007-03-02 05:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by tiemetight814 2

2007-03-02 05:31:26 · 4 answers · asked by calisrfgrl1 2

my girlfriend has bet me that i can't ask a question on YA that will generate more than 100 answers. if i win she has promised to be 'especially nice' to me this evening. if you help me you'll get 2 points and a warm feeling inside that you've helped a fellow bloke get lucky after a gruelling week at work. please guys, help a fella out...

feel free to write anything you like. words of wisdom, a joke, quote, funny word, anything at all- go nuts.

2007-03-02 05:17:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were playing the card game "Go Fish".

She asked "Do you have any 5s?"

I said no... but she thought I did so she pulled down my hand and seen that I actually had a 5.

What should I do?

2007-03-02 05:17:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 05:16:58 · 31 answers · asked by yucare 2

i have a bf and he constantly tells me that he loves me and so does his friends. but the other day we were talking about this one girl in his class and he seemed so happy that she told him that me and him were cute together. he said that that girl was so cool and awesome. and also that girl told my bf that she wanted his coat. and i can't help but feel jealous because that girl is so pretty and popular and pretty athletic and i'm afraid that i can't measure up to her. and i'm scared that my bf won't love me anymore if that girl starts flirting with him.

what should i do?
i feel really stupid feeling like this
cuz i know i shoudln't have anything to worry about
but sometimes i just can't help it.
advice please

2007-03-02 05:14:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

could it go on like that forever or do you think he's want something else?the thing is I want to spend most time with my mother who's ill and alone, my father died a year ago

2007-03-02 05:12:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 05:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by Bob N 4

2007-03-02 05:09:53 · 2 answers · asked by Frustrated 1

I'm a girl whos is interested in another girl....how do i find out if she likes me back without flat out asking?

2007-03-02 05:03:17 · 9 answers · asked by tedo 1

When someone loved one has past on, do you know if they hear you if you talk to them even though they are dead. Are they there to listen to you or it just that you are talking to yourself. How do you get your loved one who has died to appear to you if possible. I was just curious to know I have a loved one that passed away 7mo ago and I was wondering was I just wasting my time talking to myself.

2007-03-02 04:59:51 · 5 answers · asked by BabyGirl 3

Its the traditional "quinces" is a big party more like the sweet 16..I already asked what she wanted ...but didn't help. I would like to get her something nice and something she will be able to use.any ideas pls!! thanks in advance =)

2007-03-02 04:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by GIGI 3

this is a girl girl relationship.and the best i've ever had.We are going to go out tonite for our 8 month anniversary adn i was thinking of Johnny Corinos(Rogers,Arkansas)and i need ideas really quick...i have $120 to spend on her...So plz help...remember im only 16.

2007-03-02 04:42:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were got married and your partner didn't want to have kids, would you divorce them so you can find a new partner that will have kids? Will you still leave them even after you are very much in love with your partner? explain how come.

2007-03-02 04:41:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half, we dont live together, he has a child and i have two. We dont get to see eachother too much he stays at my house maybe between 1 and 3 nights a week we have one day off together which we only get to spend about 5-6 hours together, on the nights he stays over he gets to my house about 6 or later and by that time im getting my kids ready for bed and all that, so we dont have that much time then. Weve Never had a day with just the two of us since weve been together which i really dont like, cause when we have our kids together were takin care of them, so basically im just wondering if anyone else has been through this, we only live like 25 mins apart, Im just getting tired of never seeing eachother and doing anything, do you think it can last

2007-03-02 04:32:01 · 9 answers · asked by happygolucky 2

2007-03-02 04:16:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

hes christian, im not such a big christian.
he is 3 years older almost. im 16.
we both respect god, but at the same time are too physical.
hes leaving and i want to make it right with him before he goes.
im even too scared to ask him if we're still going to the prom.

2007-03-02 04:13:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-03-02 04:09:19 · 14 answers · asked by moreira0110 2

2007-03-02 04:06:01 · 3 answers · asked by bhavana t 1

2007-03-02 04:02:06 · 7 answers · asked by moreira0110 2

Hello, Do you know any helpline that can help me (not for debts, money, health, etc) but for problems such as my problem, you can check my questions, or do you know any site that can help me, I tried to contact those who care about Human rights but they DO NOT reply AND I DIDN'T FIND ANYONE TO HELP ME TILL TODAY BUT I STILL HAVE A HOPE

2007-03-02 03:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by Lonely Lone 1

i havent seen her since birth but ive seen pics and she said i looked familiar....... the only thing is that shes a prostitute...help me

2007-03-02 03:47:37 · 15 answers · asked by chelpuddles 1

Ok I need some advice how can I let this guy know I really care tonight I am 14 so no sex alright or anthing like that the farthest ill go is kissing but I am going over to his house and so is my family(my mom dad and sis) he also has a sis so how will I get him alone and make it look like I didn't do anything . . .my sis and his si follow me around too so . .help!

2007-03-02 03:41:49 · 9 answers · asked by sam_roxmysox 2

like emotionally but as a person by itself what does it mean?

2007-03-02 03:36:24 · 10 answers · asked by Pandora 1

When we first got together a year ago our relationship was very physical - now I'm lucky if we have sex once a week. Has he gone off me? What can I do to get his interest back?

2007-03-02 03:26:09 · 26 answers · asked by angelicsugarkitten 1

2007-03-02 03:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by moreira0110 2

my little sister has ran away three to four times since she moved in with my aunt and other sister who living with her in another house. She is only 16 going on 17 years old. the first time was because she broke her glasses and my aunt beat her like she stole something(retard) and then she slept her boyfriend on her school stair case duyring class time and cheated on him with two boys from a park who she never met. I am afraid she is doing the same thing her new school.
She has an excuse about having no father figure in her life (BUll **** because we have the same father) and i tell her to stop using such a sorry *** excuse and stop making herself look easy. Then she slept with a 20 something year old guy at my grandmothers rehab center even though she has clymidia(can't spell it, sorry).
Please help. Iam I being to hard on her for saying she needs to stop acting like a whore or just let her be and live on the streets like a prostitute?
She ran away yesterday and is on her peroid.

2007-03-02 03:20:37 · 1 answers · asked by ezekiel's mom 4