Other - Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

Big dilemma?
my bf is black and my parents are extremely racist and unapproving...i tried talking to them about this in a civilized manner but things only grew worse and they definitively decided that if i continue to date him, they wont finance my college education...
what should i do should i:

a) continue to see him and keep it a secret

b) tel my parents to go f*** themeselves and continue to see him and take out loans for college (which would be around 40 k a year....yes...my college is very expensive lol)

c) go along with my parents rules for the meantime (since i am living with them) until i get to college...

i really want to go with a) but i kno that that would be extremly unfair for him since he has told his whole family about me...and he doesnt deserve and wouldnt like to be kept a secret...i dono....b) also sounds VERY appealing but how the hell am i gona be able to pay all those loans back? i dono....

:-/

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