Other - Family & Relationships - 8 August 2006

We recently lost our dad. Mom sold the old house and moved into a new smaller home sense the old one reminded her too much of dad. Im currently staying with mom helping her out and taking care of my granny who is blind , cant walk and has dementia.

We also have my brother and his wife and child living with us.They live in the basement. My sister in law claims that she is severely ill, she stoped going to her courses( which i dont mind its her thing). What doesnt sit well with me is that she claims that she is ill and then as soon as my brother leaves for work she runs upstairs in the kitchen, make a huge mess and then spends her entire day on the phone. I also notcied things belonging to mom dissapearing in the kitchen. Mom's casseroles, utensiles, my glasses and plates. I had to buy a whole set so i dont get to loose my stuff.

I made the dishes last night , magically both sinks are dirty full of pots and plates and utensiles.What the heck is her problem!?!?

2006-08-08 18:46:56 · 10 answers · asked by liipl 1

what would really blow my man's "mind" next time we have our phone date?

2006-08-08 18:45:55 · 6 answers · asked by Baybee Gurrl 2

Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I have some memories about what happened that I wish I didn't have. I didn't say anything to her dad when I woke up. He was still asleep so I just left. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do. Also, I don't know how to face her dad, and discuss it. Someone please help me with this mess. If anyone has any advice I'd love to hear it.

2006-08-08 18:44:17 · 13 answers · asked by Matt Harris 1

So maybe some of you can give your views . She is married to a mexican & she is white. As you know by my nickname I date black guys & I am white. She said she could not figure out why a black & white couple are looked at & recognized more as a interracial couple than her & her hubby. What do you think? What would you have told her?

2006-08-08 18:40:59 · 9 answers · asked by דְבוֹרָה Devorah 5

My 18 yr old graduated from high school in May and just vanished one day. She finally came home while I was at work and left me a note saying she was moving in with a boyfriend. He is 25 yrs old, still married with a 2 yr old and I just think it is wrong. She wants me to take her to the store and buy her groceries. I told her she needed to get her rear home and get a job. I didn't refuse, I just didnt say yes. Would you buy the groceries? How would you handle this?

2006-08-08 18:29:42 · 23 answers · asked by happydawg 6

My man is coming home from Iraq and I have not clue what to wear for him... can anyone give me some suggestions? Thanks

2006-08-08 18:24:06 · 23 answers · asked by angelbaby6969 2

I would believe in the boyfriend asking permission

2006-08-08 18:22:25 · 5 answers · asked by Emily24 1

2006-08-08 18:21:55 · 44 answers · asked by angelbaby6969 2

questions.They kicked my daughter off this and she cryed all day,So I need a answer.

2006-08-08 18:12:29 · 8 answers · asked by jill f 2

i am really shy around people and i need advice on how to break out of my shell. right now im known as the shy smart girl but i want be know for being outgoing not shy can you help me everybody!

2006-08-08 18:10:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Female child was first molested at 6 and this has gone on 14 years. Family who know are doing nothing except keep this secret.

2006-08-08 18:02:36 · 8 answers · asked by freedom20 1

Does your wife/girlfriend rub it in to you when she thinks there is someone out there better than you?

Eg:

I think that (insert name here) is a lot better looking than you!

...or...

You lost that game because (insert name here) was just better.

Does that ever happen to you?

If so, what do you say/do about it?

2006-08-08 18:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by poirierrocks 1

Like not calling, doing anything around the house, etc.?

2006-08-08 17:57:48 · 6 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

What if what happened wasnt actually sex, but it had every sexual intention possible? What would you do? And if you gave him/her a second chance how do you trust them at all?

2006-08-08 17:54:59 · 30 answers · asked by SaRAh 2

He is such a jerk! He brought over a fried chicken dinner for her earlier this evening, and didn't think to bring me anything. My mom didn't cook, and she told me to make a sandwich, and she gave me some of her mashed potatoes, while her boyfriend sat there and licked his fingers on that chicken. Then, he told me to take out the trash! I told him to get out of our house and that I hated him. My Mommy told me to go to my room. So, here I am at 31 years of age, and sitting in my room, and I can hear them doing the dirty in the next room. What should I say to my Mommy to get rid of this loser?

2006-08-08 17:53:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex and me have broken up almost a year ago. And whenever he has a new girlfriend my friend would always make a big deal out of it eventhough i don't want them too. they say that i know that i still like him. but i knoe n i told them i dont n i just talk to him as just friend. but with all of that in mind. he keeps on calling me after every relationship he has with a girl. and just recently. he called me and told me he was goin to go eat when really he was going to go talk to another girl.. is he usin me as a rebound?

why do you think i should do w. him?
n why is my ex keep on comin bak to me??

2006-08-08 17:32:26 · 9 answers · asked by Kimberly T 2

roses, lilies, sunflowers, daisies, or ...

i'll buy a truckload if they say the perfect thing to the perfect girl.

2006-08-08 17:30:08 · 39 answers · asked by pyg 4

looking for more relatives I have lost contact with

2006-08-08 17:23:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had known this guy 4 ever- literally. we had been friends since we were little (like maybe 1, i dont remember. im now almost 16) and i had sorta looked at him like a little brother. he's only a year younger than me. and then our parents stopped talking (we knew eachother threw our parents).recently our parents began talking again and we were "reintroduced". he has changed- he's become more mature and much much MUCH cuter. and now it just feels weird looking at him as a crush. what do i do?

2006-08-08 17:21:15 · 2 answers · asked by yo. 3

I don't understand this. I have a crush on someone but every time that person is aroung I get real quiet. Is it normal ?

2006-08-08 17:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by ladyjamie 6

Well I have a rep at school and people still think that I think guys have cooties but I've got a crush on a guy at school and I want to be able to tell people but I can't. So yeah. And my question is... how do I tell them???

2006-08-08 17:10:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had known this guy 4 ever- literally. we had been friends since we were toddlers and i had sorta looked at as a little brother. he's only a year younger than me. and then are parents stopped talking (we knew eachother threw our parents).recently our parent began talking again and we were "reintroduced". he has changed- he's become more mature and much much MUCH cuter. and now it just feels weird looking at him as a crush. what do i do?

2006-08-08 17:04:23 · 2 answers · asked by yo. 3

2006-08-08 17:03:56 · 31 answers · asked by kayka44 2

My boyfriend and I have been living together for over 2 years now. We've been having some problems and went to our Pastor for some guidance. He recommended a temporary separation. Living apart but still being together. My boyfriend went and got another place thinking some time apart might do us some good since we are together most of the day everyday. I'm crushed. I feel as though he's backing out in his commitment to me. I wanted to move forward and I see this as a step backward. I do see ways that this could help us, but I just feel like he's walking out on me. More than anything I'm scared he'll decide that he doesn't want to be with me or that he'll find someone else. I love him more than anything and I just can't picture my life without him. Has anyone else tried this? How did it work? Anyone have any ideas? Anything at all would be helpful.

2006-08-08 17:03:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 17:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by still breathing 6

.im scared he might do this when he sleeps at night? when he does do it he is throwing up
what should i do

2006-08-08 16:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by sexy luv 1

Can you take constructive criticism? There are a lot of people that can dish it but simply can't take it. I can take it even if it isn't constructive criticism because I feel whatever's being thrown at me, if i'm willing not to get caught up in the nonesense in the process, it will build me up into a stronger person then i already am. It challenges me to be on my toes and about my witts. To realize that with positive comes negative. That's just the way of the world.

2006-08-08 16:57:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sxyblkdiva 1

I mean I understand if he wants a "guys night". That's totally fine with me because I don't want him to lose touch with his friends while in this relationship. I have my "girls night." The thing is that we know when it's going to happen. Like tonight, I asked him if he wanted to do something and he said he was tired and going to bed. Now, he's at the bar. My friends think it's weird that he's sneaky like that. Should I think it's weird? Or does he just want to be alone?

2006-08-08 16:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by indigonipple 3

I am on the wrong side of 60, but I want companionship and a caring person to give me pleasure for pleasure I can offe with all my heart.

2006-08-08 16:55:48 · 5 answers · asked by john blake 1

Ok I guess I didnt give some of you enough info. So heres somemore. Hes 17. He went to the doctor and asked about pills for it. He cant have them untill hes 21. He also taled to a shrink and it didnt help. He still cant get an erection and when he does hes not very hard and it doesnt last very long. He went soft inside of me. He tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am and that its not my fault. Even teasing him without him getting an erection makes him feel sick because he has blue balls after. So mabey thats a bit more so someone can help us out.

2006-08-08 16:49:23 · 3 answers · asked by kreepyemily 2