Other - Family & Relationships - 7 August 2006

My partner blames me for their excessive drinking. Okay, that is an understatement, this person drinks nearly a mid-size bottle of scotch everyday, no exageration. We live together, and have been having major relationship trouble. I was told today that if I was not in their life then they would not have to drink. The biggest issue is that when I have a problem or something that concerns me, I like to bring it out into the open and discuss it right away, and try to find a solution. My partner on the other hand does not like to confront issues head-on, instead all attention is diverted elsewhere. Therefore, we clash all of the time, over nearly everything. It has gotton to the point where I am completely avoided, and the reason I am given is that I cause too much stress for them to deal with. But I can't fully figure out if what they say is actually true. Is it fair to take some responsibility for the drinking? What can I do to help my partner?

2006-08-07 23:54:01 · 18 answers · asked by lovehavok 4

at me and screams. how do i get him to understand that im not in the mood and if its about me i shold also be in the mood to talk?

2006-08-07 23:46:07 · 16 answers · asked by Ridge P 1

2006-08-07 23:45:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

all look very alike .So why don't i think of them in a sexual or romantic way like i think of my wife??

2006-08-07 23:41:52 · 22 answers · asked by pig m 3

People often answer its the uniform! how can you fancy a uniform? there must be more to it than that, or at least elaborate on it.

2006-08-07 23:32:57 · 23 answers · asked by emergancymoose999 1

2006-08-07 23:31:52 · 6 answers · asked by parasiutininke 1

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2006-08-07 23:31:36 · 4 answers · asked by yummy _me 3

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if yall think its mean to please sign the guestbook i have email him a hundred times telling him to take that stuff down!

2006-08-07 23:31:00 · 7 answers · asked by Briley 1

i've had my bf for 8 mos and i've fallin for someone eles and is supossed 2 be my new bf but havent broken it off with the other bf and the new bf doesnt know about the other they dont know about eachother either

2006-08-07 23:22:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 23:19:49 · 21 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2

I had a best friend harika. I like her so much and she loves me too.But i had a problem, Harika and sweta are school friends.They are very close friends. All off a sudden sweta stopped talking to harika as her father did not like harika writing letters and doing phones. After an year or so sweta came saying her father accepted. Harika treats sweta as a real friend,So she accepted her again . But again after a month or so she did the same thing not talking. But harika is so sensible she could not forget her friend.I liked harika soo much .So way knowing all this also i accepted her as my friend.I thouht she would forget sweta.Now i love her so much.We even dont just stay a day talking.We are that close.But i could not bear harika thinking of her friend even now after all that happened. My love 4 her is that much.Now i could'nt take a decision whether to continue friendship with her or not. But its so hard 4 me to forget her.am i doing wrong.am i separating them.plz suggest me.

2006-08-07 23:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by sirisha s 1

If you were going to die, who would you make peace with?

2006-08-07 23:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't done any thing and I am still very loyal to her.
The reason for her is that I am not eager to have sex with her as before. Actually I am doing it Maturily.

2006-08-07 23:03:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sam 3

im bored my bubs is asleep my man is at a friends and none of my friends are online what should i do ?

2006-08-07 23:03:18 · 8 answers · asked by princess_cristee 2

I'm still in love with my ex, and he is still in love with me but were not 2gether anymore because he f**ked up in a major way. We just recently started back talking, and even though the conversations are cool. I"m fighting myself, because part of me doesn't want to be his friend right now because of all the pain he has caused me and that I am still experiencing. He has me to the point where I'm scared to let anyone close to my heart, I'm not even trying to date anyone, because I'm scared I will hurt that person. But then its that part of me that still loves him, and I made a promise to him that I would always be their for him when we first got togrther. And I believe in keeping your promises to people, besides every woman who has came into his life has lift him even his own mother. WHAT'S A WOMAN TO DO?

2006-08-07 23:02:19 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2

well im talkin to this guy online and we've been talkin for like a week and a half but i've been with my boyfriend for 8 mos what should i do i love them both

2006-08-07 23:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-07 22:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by Leon 1

2006-08-07 22:42:13 · 2 answers · asked by Akash 2

I lost the true love of my life to a scum sucking predator who preyed on my wife's lonliness while i was serving in Iraq. We still talk occasionally and she tells me she regrets what she did and that she still loves me, but that she must live with her own mistake.
We are now divorced and i have a girlfriend who is wonderful and treats me good. The problem is that I don't love her like I do my ex. And my ex just tells me that I need to learn to be content with what I have. I think it's BS to do so. I know what makes me happy and it is her, even though she doesn't deserve my love.
Do I fight/wait for my one true love, even though she did me wrong.... or do I just be content with someone who is good to me even though I don't love her as much?

2006-08-07 22:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by RangerBob 2

his stupid friend squeaky wrote all this can som1 help me get revenge?check the guest book thats all the revenge i have so far.

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2006-08-07 22:37:59 · 6 answers · asked by Briley 1

2006-08-07 22:34:14 · 8 answers · asked by Petra Cristina 1

2006-08-07 22:28:14 · 5 answers · asked by timmsie71 1

I think girls do..who do you think?

2006-08-07 22:19:42 · 14 answers · asked by canuworkwitdat 1

2006-08-07 22:10:05 · 14 answers · asked by 1 1

2006-08-07 22:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by 1 1

After a heated discussion with my Partner the other day. Things were said that have got me thinking.

I'm due a payout - I'm not sure how much. Anyway Partner screams at me in the middle of the row that he wanted me to - and I quote - "put £5000 in his bank account and then he'd bugger off"......

Is the fact that I'm due this payout the only reason he's with me???

Does he love me? Should I just tell him to bugger off anyway??

I've been with him nearly five years. I thought I knew him - Obviously not.....

Help.

2006-08-07 22:04:16 · 28 answers · asked by Hedgehog 3

if american name is there than also ok.

2006-08-07 22:01:10 · 4 answers · asked by suvarna krish 1

Provided that all safety measures are taken

2006-08-07 21:59:21 · 2 answers · asked by www.freewebs.com/belles-lettres 2

My boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months and i found out right at the beginning that he was still telling his ex that he loved her and that i was just something he was using to get over her (he dumped her). She lives in Mexico and so he was ringing her and emailing her and i overheard conversations and i found emails. He told me that he would stop and the only reason he was doing it was to keep her happy he did it several times after this each time i found out and then i told him that the next time i find something he's gone. I haven't found anything but i'm still suspicious. He still has contact with her cos he owes her money. She also sends me horrible emails regularily and he tells meto ignore them but when i say that i am going to email her back telling her what i think of her he tells me that i'm out of order and i'm being unfair to her he doesn't seem to think that she is being unfair and out of order to me by doing it in the first place! What should i do?

2006-08-07 21:57:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Had a fling with some one on a mutual understanding(physically and sexually), to keep as friends thou the friendship and sex, and you both realise that there's an EX-FACTOR or LOVE CHEMISTRY amongest your selves and agree that there are STRONG feelings DESPITE the being friends issue??!, Do you love and recomend it?. How does it feel like?. am there i want to know other peoples views and feeling. thanks in advance.

2006-08-07 21:54:38 · 5 answers · asked by kiss me. 3