I'm still in love with my ex, and he is still in love with me but were not 2gether anymore because he f**ked up in a major way. We just recently started back talking, and even though the conversations are cool. I"m fighting myself, because part of me doesn't want to be his friend right now because of all the pain he has caused me and that I am still experiencing. He has me to the point where I'm scared to let anyone close to my heart, I'm not even trying to date anyone, because I'm scared I will hurt that person. But then its that part of me that still loves him, and I made a promise to him that I would always be their for him when we first got togrther. And I believe in keeping your promises to people, besides every woman who has came into his life has lift him even his own mother. WHAT'S A WOMAN TO DO?
2006-08-07 23:02:19 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Educated 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Think about why you broke up in first place. Once bitten twice shy. You will not hurt anyone you only feel that because you have been made feel you were at fault. Let go of the past. move on ther will be some one who will steal your heart for the better just around the corner.It was better to have loved and lost than never loved at all. You can now learn from your mistakes.We all promise the people we love when in relationship that we will always be there, and we are until they ruin it.
2006-08-07 23:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by a mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why the other women left.Leave him alone if your that scared to let someone get close to you why would you want to continue talking to the a$$ that caused it in the first place and I'm very sure when you made that promise that you'll be there are whatever, it included him not hurting you so problem solved. Stop being a lil ***** get some balls and leave the idiot alone.
And he sounds like he can/will be abusive, trust me you don't want to stay.So say, bye bye bye.
2006-08-07 23:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by killbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be one of those ignorant women who keep either going back to the same loser or one that is just like the loser they left. You'll only live your whole life this way; you'll start noticing a pattern in your horrible life after a while. You still have time to find yourself and not repeat the same retarded mistake twice. Stay out of this problem. Unless you just love being stupid.
2006-08-07 23:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by J P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to feel guilty about all this mess , initiated by that getlman , you are not breaking any promise , he force you to think this way , do not take responsibility if he is not getting along with loved ones . Better , restart your life again and enjoy balanced years of your life .
2006-08-07 23:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how badly he messed up, if he learned anything from it, and how much potential you think he has. If he beat you, then absolutely do not get back together with him. If he simply forgot to pick up milk on his way home one night, then it's worth giving him another chance. But, ultimately, you're the only one who can accurately weigh how much you value him against how badly he's likely to hurt you again.
2006-08-07 23:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Muralasa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes an ex for a Reason leave it at that theres is plenty of fish in the sea
2006-08-07 23:08:43 · answer #6 · answered by darkcwler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not enable him, he needs to change.
2006-08-07 23:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋