I lost the true love of my life to a scum sucking predator who preyed on my wife's lonliness while i was serving in Iraq. We still talk occasionally and she tells me she regrets what she did and that she still loves me, but that she must live with her own mistake.
We are now divorced and i have a girlfriend who is wonderful and treats me good. The problem is that I don't love her like I do my ex. And my ex just tells me that I need to learn to be content with what I have. I think it's BS to do so. I know what makes me happy and it is her, even though she doesn't deserve my love.
Do I fight/wait for my one true love, even though she did me wrong.... or do I just be content with someone who is good to me even though I don't love her as much?
2006-08-07 22:38:08 · 6 answers · asked by RangerBob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i just got out of a relationship where I was the wonderful gf and my bf was still in love with his ex who left him for a younger man and got prego before the divorced was official. He dumped me, not to get back with her but to get his head straight. It sucked for me bc we have dated on/off since Jan.
He will never go back to his ex....
You can't help who you love, you don't get to pick him/her out... you just one day meet that person and it happens.
True love, TRUE LOVE doesn't happen anymore these days bc society is so divorced driven.
If you love her, fight for her, if she doesn't want you back, respect that don't become a crazy psycho stalker... but tell her once that you are still in love with her. Don't let her give you an answer/response at that time. Tell her to think about it and if she wants to give it one more try, ask her to meet you somewhere (fav restaurant, park, somewhere that was special to the both of you) on a certain day at a certain time. Make it 3-5 days away.
SO if you tell her on a Thursday, ask her to meet you that following Monday. That gives her time to think.
If she rejects you, then you know... even though you love was true, hers isn't and then you will have to move on.
hope it works out.
2006-08-07 22:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Vicki 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Elsie i do not know in which to start .Everything you assert is so proper that is why i left the UK . No different nation welcomes immigrants like Britain she is helping them make a brand new lifestyles for themselves and their households , and what does she get in go back a few humans milking the method and are consistently complaining approximately their lifestyles within the UK. I labored in Alicante airport in Spain , day-to-day i spoke to households compelled to depart their mom nation on the grounds that they believe they now not belong within the nation which they had been born. How can this be proper. Spain welcomes immigrants however thats in which it stops in case you cant help your self you cant keep, theres no handing out Dole cash, unfastened housing or unfastened wellness care. I spotted one of the crucial solutions mentioned "please provide an explanation for" good they have got to begin pondering what its like for the normal loved ones within the UK . As you mentioned above in the event that they dont like the way in which the Britain is , they may be able to regularly return to their possess nation . Well performed Elsie for having the braveness to mention what so much Britains are pondering.
2016-08-28 10:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of in the same situation, my one true love was great, but I ruined it, and I have to live with it, now a few years later, I still regret it, but I have to move on because there is no other choice for me. If she says she still loves you and you are angry, you have to ask yourself, is it worth giving her another chance?
2006-08-07 22:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't fair to stay with that nice girl when she could be with some one that truly loves her. You are holding her back so do her a favour and break up with her as nicely as possible. You need to be alone for a while and work on some of your issues. Your love is not based on anything that makes sense so I suspect it is very superficial.
2006-08-07 22:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you miss your ex, if you were her true love, she would be with you. Move on and try to be happy.
2006-08-07 22:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU FIGHT, You fight like a rabid dog, for the one you love. If you can forgive, then you better fight.
Good Luck!
2006-08-07 22:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Pricklyash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋