I haven't done any thing and I am still very loyal to her.
The reason for her is that I am not eager to have sex with her as before. Actually I am doing it Maturily.
2006-08-07 23:03:36 · 9 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are u sure....? women usually have the instinct to find out ... better own up
2006-08-07 23:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not having sex with another girl, then shes projecting her own guilt{from having sex with someone other than you}out onto you. its dysfunctional, but she can feel somewhat justified in her own actions by convincing herself that you are also sleeping with someone else.anger, is the most popular cover for hurt and guilty feelings. her accusations and resentments and anger is how she feels about herself. but she can't or won't allow herself to accept these feelings as her own. because if she did, then she would have to admit to being in the wrong. she would feel even worse realizing that you have been faithful all along. and her justifications would mean nothing. she would have to accept the fault. and no dog likes there face rubbed in there own sh*t. sex is not love and love is not sex.you can have love without sex and sex without love. and all of this really has nothing to do with you. but everything to do with her. her failure to communicate a need not being met by you. her failure to give you the chance to meet the need you didn't even know existed. have her seek counseling or else this issue will never get resolved and this incident will repeat itself.
stacy.
2006-08-08 06:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by stacy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your with the same person for a while sex just becomes a thing that isnt done as often in most cases. your girlfriend is suspecting that you are cheating because you just have no intrest in having sex with her,,,, doing the same thing over and over.... try spicing up your sex life. then you should become more eager and make her happy
2006-08-08 06:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't done anything, then don't stress over it. Wait until she says she has evidence, then ask to see it. If she can't come up with anything, the she's being insecure and it's probably going to get worse until you have sex with her.
Stick to your guns until or before she drives you away
2006-08-08 07:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by Michael_D_Miller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you love her so much and because of this you don't want her to feel like its all about sex, take her out in the evening go home and make love to her(not sex, love) and let her know that you will never cheat on her, that you just like the fact that your finally in a mature relationship and don't want to mess up things.
2006-08-08 06:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by killbill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing, my gf thought because of my high libido that i would do it with any one any time any where and yours bcoz of you being so Mature thinks you were getting it from some one else.
Its difficult to understand WOMEN!
By the way do i need to ask this question that when i had high libido, was i an immature guy?
2006-08-08 06:13:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could get difficult because telling her the truth may bring anger.
2006-08-08 06:44:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should explain that to her, give her that extra reassurance sometimes us ladies need that
2006-08-08 06:09:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the other fess up
to your girl!
if you are not guilty,
tonite you'll have a great time!
2006-08-08 06:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋