my husband (of 16yr) and I have just bought our first home. here in ohio. started to put paint on the walls in kitchen and diningroom(we both like) but not finish, he wont let me finish; put paint on 2 walls in teenager(my daughter 16yr)room, wont let me finish; wont let me pick the handles for kitchen cupboard(have tried a few, but nothing we both like). husband says he will pick them out and put them on.
today(sunday, father's day) says that I can help. but the only thing he has "let" me help with is to sweep the floor in the livingroom(where he got wallpaper border off-left on floor) and handed him a few things to get water to stop leaking through the pipe in the basement.
my question is: HUSBAND IS telling me what I can and cant paint or fix. : do all married couples go through this struggle? and what is the wife "allowed" to do without husband's "permission" concerning finishing painting or not.?
am I suppose to just clean up after him and let him finish the whole house his way ?
2006-06-18
09:15:23
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cats3inhouse
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