Friends - February 2007

I have a friend I like, however it has been many times that we would end up arguing. But that's fine, - sure, people will always have different views. She is smart and interesting and is full of curious insights about people and the world. The thing that bothers me is that while she says a couple of nice and positive words about me, she then tells me things like "you are a difficult person", "you are unreasonable", "you are crazy", "it is impossible to tell you anything". I am starting to think that it's not all that innocent because it upsets me and it's like her perception of me is different from who I really am. I am no perfect, but there was no sitiation, when I would let her down or point out at her faults. Have you has a similar experience? Would you tolerate your friends defining who you are?

2007-02-27 11:34:27 · 2 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3

I only have friends that are girls. Most of them hang out w/ other girls and the others have boy friends. I really want to make a friend that is a boy but how? I really don't know what to say. I don't want anything wierd.........i really need something to say. I'm not usually shy in making friends but with a boy...kind of. Please give me something to say and PLEASE SKIP the introduction like "hi im..." Just say he's my friend already. but what do i talk about with him?

2007-02-27 11:33:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime i see you its like our hole
past runs through my mind like
everytime we were together and
everytime you held my hand or kissed
my lips i can feel ur hand tuch my and
youre lips touch mine i hear your
voise so soft. whenever my life seems
to crumble my mind goes strait to you
like whenever i would call you in the
middle of the night just to say
goodnight and we would end up
talking for hours about nothing and
you never seemed to care when we
crossed the line between friends and
became so much more i found out
theres no going back. when i told you
i just wanted to be friends i knew
it wasnt possible to be just friends. what we
had was special and we cant erase our
past. now when i see you with her
i think of every moment we had
i think of you when im
with my guy and i know theres a
resone for that i thought you
mightwant to know
i still love you
but theres no going back

2007-02-27 11:33:16 · 1 answers · asked by vallan1015 2

ok so me and my best friend were down at the beach at dark time and 2 guys came down in bikes and then went away and came back with a comeero car and got out and got all wierd and drunk acting at us. so my friend left and yet ive never seen these guys around before but now they are stalking me and stuff. what should i do? at first they seemed appealing but now im afraid of them and they have been stalking me for about a week and a half now. im very scared and would like to know just what i should do about this?

2007-02-27 11:33:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay, so i was best friends with this girl for about a year. all of a sudden she completely changed. last summer she started sleeping with all these guys, partying all the time with older guys, almost drank herself to death one night (i'm pretty sure it was on purpose), i ended up dragging her down to the hospital, & she went off to this treatment place. i found out she'd made up all these stories and lies, and had done more stuff than i thought. but i thought after treatment and counceling she had changed. she did for a while but then went back to how she was. we didn't talk for about three months. now though, we've been talking, and she's changed a lot. at least i think. how can i be sure? i think it might be different this time though cuz i should know what to look for now right? am i right for giving her a second chance, cuz i think i am. what's the point in trying to get someone to change and then not giving them a chance to show you when they do? i just need an outside opinion.

2007-02-27 11:28:58 · 8 answers · asked by i_play_6 2

My friend has asked me to a rave and there well be drinking and stuff there and I already told her that I would go! But my dad is a cop so he could tell if I was drunk or not. So what should I do?

2007-02-27 11:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

darkened skies, baby blue eyes, a beautiful smile that lasted only a wile laughs and games never could cover the shames, cries and tears endless fears looks of shame never trying to share the blame never knowing who you left behind, always knowing that love is blind, happyness by day all the people you played sadness by night not enough strength to fight black as in shadows red as in rage trying to find resones to distribute the pain your friends they love you, you dont believe its true, but the only thing i can say is how much i love you just like a dream you came and you went but not enough time was spent the happiness is gone sorry it took so long to bring out my feelings toward you now all i can say is how much i love you

2007-02-27 11:20:15 · 6 answers · asked by vallan1015 2

I had 2 best friends in my whole world; we were always together no matter what like everybody thought that we were sister or cuz. But suddenly one of them didn't trust me and quit our friendship; I assume that her dad didn't like me. And the problem is I don't want to lose my other friend. Because since I quit w/ my other friend, they hang out w/ each other and having fun together without me. I talked to my friend and she said that she wants to be w/ both of us but when she sees her friend (my ex friend) she totally 4got me. She pisses me off and I don't know should I quit w/ her too or not. I don't know what to do; I don't want to be alone in school, in my classes and especially in lunch time. I have some friends in school beside them but I don't what to hang out w/ them all the times. And I’m starting hate school and all those classes that i have w/ them. So what should I do??? Or if u were me then wut would u do???

2007-02-27 11:19:26 · 1 answers · asked by Girl 1

hey there...
well i have this friend who everytime
that her parents get mad at her
she cuts herself
i´ve tried to help her
but she doesn´t seem to understand
althought she has told that she wants to stop cutting herself
she can´t because it´s something she can´t control

i don´t know what to do anymore


thanx in advance =)

2007-02-27 11:15:59 · 20 answers · asked by ashlee 2

2007-02-27 11:11:20 · 19 answers · asked by LON 1

hello my name is nancy i have this bestfriend on the net we have been friends for 5 years now about 1 year ago i was very upset i didnt answer the phone one day when my friend called she forgave me but every since that day our friendship has'nt been the same we chat once a week now i always sent her messages and e-mail but she never e-mailsme back .it really starting to hurt i get depressed alot about it i dont now what to do someone please help me she says she still love me i just dont now anymore what should i do

2007-02-27 11:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

because i love him alot

2007-02-27 10:57:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

this kid talked about my family in a bad way. Me and him used to be cool, but since i hung out with different friends he followed and started to act like them and do everything to impress them. I'm left in the dust. When i told him what he was doing, about not being himself, he said yadayadaya your parents. I was soo furious! I need a revenge tactic. It must stay in the law. I want him to suffer. Heres some stuff about him: he has bad hair, got repeated from the 6th grade, wears non brand name clothes, tries to dance but can't, likes someone and i know who (devilish laugh). Muhahahaha

2007-02-27 10:57:13 · 13 answers · asked by Andy D 3

2007-02-27 10:48:13 · 3 answers · asked by Mizz.D 2

2007-02-27 10:44:57 · 9 answers · asked by Kelli J 2

2007-02-27 10:44:03 · 4 answers · asked by NEMESIS 3

2007-02-27 10:43:11 · 6 answers · asked by Goddess of Nature 2

Okay me and my homegurl has always been close. We met playing basketball, and went to the same high school, and our moms became the best of friends, but me and her seem like we hate eachother and can't get along. I don't know what it is???? Maybe we are eachothers competition. I have a boyfriend, and she lies and tell me she does but doesn't. I am better than her in basketball, but she claims she's better than me even when others say I'm better. If we know the same person she will tell them to come and talk to her when I was talking first. Is this jealousy????

2007-02-27 10:36:56 · 3 answers · asked by Lil Mamii 2

He does not even talk to anybody and my friends told me that i should talk to him but i cant. and the other problem is that I am in love with my best friends bro whos name is Steven but he is alot younger than me(2 yrs.) me and him are friends but we dont talk to each other that much, and lets face it its not like I can get any guy that i want. Im no Angelina Jolie!!! LOL

2007-02-27 10:36:51 · 1 answers · asked by Little lady bug 2

K well long story short my friend Eddy asked me out i said no were not friends anymore then i have another friend dei. and yesterday eddy didnt come to school so dei. hanged out with me and my other friends. Today Eddy was at school and Dei. hanged out with him i got mad but i dont know why? am i jelous she always hangs out with them and never with me she takes his side so what do i do? hwo do i get over eddy cuz the truth is i do like him and i just want him out of my life! Im sad because he was so unfair i cant talk to any of my friends about him cuz they all think i dont like like him so what do i do?

2007-02-27 10:33:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please explain why you do. Thank you for all your answers in advance.

2007-02-27 10:25:53 · 15 answers · asked by John 5

2007-02-27 10:19:55 · 1 answers · asked by Kool Kat 1

My friend called me and ask me if she could borrow my book. I told her I already gave that book to my cusin. My friend than ask my other friend to ask me if she could borrow the book. She thought I was saying No to only her.

But I just don't know why they would do that? They called me with three way line, so both can hear. I didn't know that they was calling me three way until I heard the other girl on line.

2007-02-27 10:15:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been her friend for 5 years. She is really obnoxious, and I dont' know how to handle her. She is a tyrant over me! Her dad left last December and I am the only one she is allowed to tell! I can't stand her anymore! What on this earth do I do???

2007-02-27 10:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by sobe_thatway 1

i can not make friends, i try to talk to them, i try joke with them, they just tell me get lost or they walk away, i have never had a girlfriend because i'm well ugly, so one the main reasons they will not talk to me is cause they think i'm gay, now life it getting to hard for me know, all i want is to be happy, lots of mates and a girlfriend, how come its to hard to ask for, is there anything good about life, i'm beginning to think why am i here, theres no place on this planet for me, :(( :((

2007-02-27 10:10:26 · 34 answers · asked by guy 600 1

i've been happy all my life except toDAY, and i have no clue why~i started feeling blue and it got worse and worse and now i'm totally unmotivated.

and it's not my period.

2007-02-27 10:10:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Shes my best friend and I go to her house all the time. Its just I just dont really feel like it today. I already told her that I cant because my parents wont let me. She asked me why, like always, so I told her its because my parents are going to be gone all week and need me to do the house chores. (which is the truth) Well she asked how long it would take (and im kinda starting to feel bad for not wanting to be over.) so i tell her id be done in a couple of hours.

So now shes coming to pick me up at 7pm (2 hrs from now if your in central time zone). I dont know what to tell her! I mean im afraid if I tell her anything else she'll know I dont want to go and that im lieing and she'll think im a jerk.

2007-02-27 10:07:01 · 6 answers · asked by Linzi 4

I dont have the guts to.....................................?

2007-02-27 10:06:52 · 17 answers · asked by beyond paradise 4

I am a debater, i use useful thoughts in a fight. two of my other friends are quiet and don't like getting "involved" even though they are, and last is my friend that is a girl, she is gangstar and likes fighting..she seems to pick fights with me more because she likes me..but when i strike her with a good comeback (verbaly) she starts to cuss...what should we do?

2007-02-27 09:58:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

To buy a pre paid phone, is it required to go through a credit check? Any suggestions on which prepaid phone is the best one to invest in? plz let me know thnx!

2007-02-27 09:55:33 · 1 answers · asked by bme24_7 1